Peaceandlove67 Article: It's Hard Being Asexual

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posted by Peaceandlove67

I didn't intend on 写作 this originally, but I just felt like venting, so here I go. Being asexual isn't easy, but it's part of who I am. I can't exactly change that. What's hard is some people can't accept it.

I thought that I wouldn't be bullied once I was in college. I still get bullied for being asexual. It's indirectly, unlike when I was in high school. At least, I'm not getting beat up for it.

I overheard one person saying that the reason I'm asexual is that I can't get a date. I could if I wanted to. I have been asked out 由 a few people, but I turned them down. They just weren't my type. One of them didn't even like rock and roll. That's a deal breaker for me.

For the longest time, I've actually been afraid to date. When I was in high school, there was one guy who told me that I would like sex if I tried it. He then told me to meet him after school. I did not meet with him. I went straight home. I'm sure if I had met with him, he would have raped me. After opening up to some of my 老友记 here about it, Layla pointed out to me that I shouldn't let just one incident make me afraid of dating. I'm not currently looking. I'm waiting for romance to find me.

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BingoPB I'm sorry you're having a hard time, Antonia. I hope those people who make fun of you don't have any friends. They don't deserve them, especially not a wonderful friend like you. Only a few people know about me being asexual, and I think I'll keep it that way.

80smusiclover1 I agree with Kayla. Those bastards are just losers. Remember that you are very special no matter what they say about you. *Hugs*

Rubyrings They don't get it, that's all there is to it. And they don't deserve to have you around. I can't believe they assumed that just because you haven't had any dates means you "can't" get any.

Peaceandlove67 *returns hugs* Thanks, everyone.

Roldan13 Antonia, don't pay them any mind. They just don't know anything about anything. You're a great person. Remember that.

Peaceandlove67 Thank you, Jill.

ktichenor I'm so sorry that happened. Those people are just jerks! Tbh I went through some of the same things with so called friends while I was struggling to figure out what I was so I understand. Just remember you're a strong and great person and we're here for you, always. *hugs!*

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Made of Scars Part 3

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That Monday, Lilian got on the bus to go to school. At one point, she saw Clive get on and look for a place to sit. She told him, "You can sit with me if 你 want to." He said, "Thank you. That's very kind of you." He sat beside her. He then asked, "You all right?" She replied, "I'm just fine. Why wouldn't I be?" He said, "I'm sorry. For a moment, I forgot I wasn't in England anymore." The then explained that when a British person says "You all right?" 或者 simply "All right?", it means "Hello!" 或者 "How are you?" It doesn't mean the same as "Are 你 all right?" Lilian said, "I didn't know that....

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Made of Scars Part 2

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A few days after Gideon moved away, Lilian turned thirteen. Despite the fact that it was her birthday, she didn't feel much like celebrating. She enjoyed the company of her family, but it wasn't the same without Gideon around. Her aunt asked, "What did 你 wish for, dear?" Lilian wanted to say her real wish: for Gideon to come back, but that wasn't going to happen. Instead, she said, "A friend." The 下一个日 after school, Lilian's aunt and uncle took her to an animal shelter to look at puppies. Lilian thought that the 小狗 were all so cute. How could she possibly choose one? Of course, she...

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Made of Scars Part 1

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Lilian had returned 首页 after a bad 日 at school. She sat 由 her window, reflecting on what happened. She was walking to her history class, minding her own business. Suddenly, Biff and his two followers got in the way. "Going somewhere?" Biff remarked. Lilian said, "Just to my history class. Now, can 你 please get out of my way?" One of Biff's followers said, "We could, but that doesn't mean we will." She tried to go the other way, but they only followed. Biff said, "We're not letting 你 off easy, shredder." Just then, a voice was heard. It said, "She has a name, Biff. Her name is Lilian."...

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Husky vs. Malamute

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粉丝 Fiction Trivia

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Hello, everyone! Peaceandlove67 here, 或者 as most of 你 know me, Antonia. I am going to share a bit of trivia on my 粉丝 fictions. Without further ado, let's get started.

1. John Wilde was almost a Pisces.
John Wilde was mostly based off myself. I almost made his birthday March 3, two days after my birthday. Instead, I made his birthday June 19, one 日 after Paul McCartney. This would make John a Gemini.

2. Many of my characters are based on people I know.
Many of my characters are based off of my 老友记或者 relatives. My characters who are from England are usually based off of my best friend,...

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Gotcha the Cockatoo

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This bird says the funniest things.

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Differences Can Be Good Final Part

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Jayce began to tell her story. She said, "It was a few years ago. My parents and I had been to the movies. As we were heading home, this idiot was in the wrong lane, going the wrong way. My father swerved to avoid a collision, and the vehicle flipped several times. Some broken glass got stuck in parts of my face. I had to have stitches." 冬青, 冬青树 said, "That must have been horrible." Jayce said, "I was traumatized, but if that wasn't bad enough, the kids at school called me Frankenstein for the rest of the year. When I moved here, I told everyone that I had been in fights. It's a defense mechanism,...

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Differences Can Be Good Part 3

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One day, as 冬青, 冬青树 and Jayce were walking to school together, Jayce did most of the talking. Jayce then said, "Holly, 你 haven't 说 a word. Is something wrong?" 冬青, 冬青树 said, "It's nothing." Jayce said, "I know it's something." 冬青, 冬青树 said, "I just didn't sleep well last night. That's all." Jayce didn't seem to buy that. She said, "Come on, Holly. I'm your friend. 你 can tell me what's wrong." 冬青, 冬青树 said, "My grandma is in bad shape. She is very demented. She still knows who I am, but she doesn't seem to understand what I tell her anymore." Jayce said, "I'm sorry to hear this." 冬青, 冬青树 said,...

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Differences Can Be Good Part 2

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The bullies pushed 冬青, 冬青树 down. She cried for help. Before the bullies could beat her, a voice was heard. The voice said, "Hey! Leave her alone!" The ring leader asked, "What are 你 going to do about it?" The voice asked, "Are 你 sure 你 want to do this?" The ring leader said, "I don't think 你 want to mess with us." The voice said, "On the contrary, I've been in fights, and I've got the scars to prove it." The bullies ran away in fear. 冬青, 冬青树 got up to see who saved her. It was a girl about Holly's age. The girl asked, "Are 你 okay?" 冬青, 冬青树 said, "I'm fine. Thanks. That was cool, what you...

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Differences Can Be Good Part 1

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It was the middle of summer, and 冬青, 冬青树 was packing up her things, getting ready to 移动 to her new home. She was born and raised in California, but her father got a job offer in South Carolina. He gladly accepted it. He explained to Holly, "I got a job offer in South Carolina. I'm taking it, because we'll be closer to Grandma and Grandpa. I can be around to help Grandpa with Grandma, because she is very demented." 冬青, 冬青树 had mixed feelings. A part of her was excited, because she could be closer to her grandparents, whom she loved dearly. At the same time, she was scared. She would be going to...

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True 老友记 Mend a Broken 心 Final Part

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It was close to Christmas, and Laura was able to go 首页 to spend time with her family. Once at home, she told her parents about her friends, Ian and Mel. Laura's parents were glad to know she made such good friends. Later, Laura's mother asked, "Did 你 hear what happened to Kurt?" Laura said, "No." Her father said, "He was killed in a car crash a few weeks ago." A few months ago, Laura would have been filled with sorrow. She didn't feel sorrow. She didn't feel glad. She felt nothing. Her mother asked, "Aren't 你 sad to know that?" Laura said, "Actually, I don't feel anything. He dumped me...

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True 老友记 Mend a Broken 心 Part 5

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One Saturday, Laura sat in her dorm room and cried. She was still sad about being dumped 由 Kurt. Suddenly, she heard a knock on her door. She went to see who it was. It was Mel. Mel said, "There's no need to cry alone. Ian and I are going out. Would 你 like to come?" Laura said, "Well, I suppose it's better than sitting in the dorm room crying over someone I really shouldn't be crying over." Mel said, "It's okay to cry. I know you're hurting. I think that a change of scenery might help." Laura got ready and went out with Mel and Ian. At one point, Ian said, "Laura, 你 told me that 你 used...

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True 老友记 Mend a Broken 心 Part 4

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The 下一个 morning, Laura reluctantly got up and went to her 音乐 class. She enjoyed the class very much, but after what happened the night before, she couldn't really enjoy anything. Ian noticed her looking sad. He asked, "Are 你 all right?" She said, "I'm fine." He said, "Your voice sounds funny. Have 你 been crying?" She said, "No, it's allergies." Laura had never felt so dirty. She lied to her friend. She didn't have any allergies. When she and Ian had lunch together, Ian said, "Laura, 你 have been quiet all day. Are 你 sure you're all right?" She burst into tears. He asked, "What's...

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True 老友记 Mend a Broken 心 Part 3

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One day, Laura and Ian were studying together. One of their classmates came up and asked, "Can I be in your study group?" Ian said, "I don't see why not." She smiled and sat beside them. She 说 to Laura, "Hey, I recognize you. We live in the same dorm." Laura said, "I thought I had seen 你 somewhere other than US History." The girl said, "Yeah. I live across the hall from you." Laura asked, "What's your name?" The girl replied, "My name's Melanie, but 你 can call me Mel." Laura said, "Hello, Mel. My name's Laura." Laura, Mel, and Ian studied together regularly. Eventually, Laura opened...

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True 老友记 Mend a Broken 心 Part 2

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The 下一个 morning, Laura woke up to her alarm. She ate a quick breakfast and headed to her first class. When she entered the building, she was mesmerized 由 how similar it looked to her high school. She closed her eyes for a moment, reflecting on her high school experience. She suddenly forgot where she was going. Suddenly, she bumped into something....or someone. She quickly opened her eyes, trying to see what hit her, and before she could do anything else, she fell to the floor. She looked up and saw a boy about her age looking down on her. He was tall and slender. He had 板栗 colored...

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True 老友记 Mend a Broken 心 Part 1

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It was mid-August. Laura was packing her things, getting ready to leave for college. She was going to college to study music. From a young age, Laura had always been passionate about music, especially rock music. When she finished packing her things, her boyfriend, Kurt, dropped 由 for a visit. They had been dating since high school. She said, "Hello, Kurt." He asked, "Why are 你 going all the way to Boone for college? Why aren't 你 going to the local college?" She replied, "The local college doesn't offer what I want to go into." He said, "I think it's very selfish that 你 want to make...

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Pinned Down and Abused for Being Strange Final Part

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Quinton noticed that the air was getting colder. His flannel 衬衫 was no longer keeping him warm. He shivered in the cold. His beloved dog, Fortune, snuggled close to him, trying to keep him warm. He 说 to her, "Fortune, I need someone to find me soon." He let her off the lead and said, "Go! Go, Fortune!" She ran off to find help. Quinton waited and waited. He soon saw Fortune with Sasha running close behind. Quinton had never seen a sweeter sight. Sasha said, "Quinton, your parents and I have been looking all over for you. Are 你 all right?" He said, "No, I'm not." He told her everything...

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Pinned Down and Abused for Being Strange Part 4

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Some time passed, and Quinton formed a strong bond with his new puppy, Fortune. One day, he was taking her for a walk. For some reason, T-Rex and his gang happened to be in the neighborhood. T-Rex said, "Hey, look, it's Quinton and Freak Dog!" Quinton said, "My dog has a name, T-Rex, and her name is Fortune!" One of T-Rex's followers said, "It's only fitting that a freak has a dog who is also a freak." Quinton said, "Fortune is not a freak. She happens to be an amazing dog!" T-Rex just mocked Quinton. Quinton tried to walk away, but T-Rex tripped him. Quinton tried to get up, but T-Rex's gang...

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Pinned Down and Abused for Being Strange Part 3

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After thinking of a name for his new puppy, Quinton finally settled on Fortune, because he believed she was fortunate that he found her. The 下一个 day, Sasha paid him a visit. She asked, "What did 你 name your puppy?" He said, "I named her Fortune." Sasha said, "That's an appropriate name for her. After being abused 由 the neighborhood kids, she is in a loving home." Quinton said, "That's right. I don't understand why they think it's okay to abuse someone for having multicolored eyes." After taking his new found friend for a walk, Quinton was content. He enjoyed having a dog in his life again....

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Pinned Down and Abused for Being Strange Part 2

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Down on his knees, Quinton reached into his pocket and pulled out a bag of beef jerky to coax the 小狗 close to him. She limped up to him and ate the beef jerky. He allowed her to smell his hand. She began licking his face. Sasha said, "Aw! She likes you, Quinton." Quinton smiled and said, "All 狗 like me." The 小狗 allowed Quinton and Sasha to pet her. Sasha said, "Look at her eyes. It's like they have blue, amber, and green mixed in." Quinton said, "She must be part Husky. The multicolored eyes in a Husky is known as parti-colored. I once owned a Husky. Her name was Luna. She had eyes...