你 should never change who 你 are, 或者 what 你 like, 或者 your personality because someone else doesn't like it, 或者 looks down their nose at you... but sometimes it is important to know and to care about what others think of you.
For example... if 你 wear makeup, 或者 buy clothes that make 你 look good; if 你 are polite and 你 smile when someone smiles at you, then 你 care about what they think and this is a good thing.
If everyone 说 that they didn't care what people thought of them, then the world would be in total chaos. Respect comes from caring about other's opinions and what people...
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