The main problem that guys face when trying to 吻乐队（Kiss） a girl is knowing if they are ready to 吻乐队（Kiss） them. Get the timing wrong, and things will turn really awkward. Get it right, and well... 你 will know. Here's how 你 can increase your odds. But, if 你 know they are ready then things will go well
1)Make her comfortable 由 making a joke, and don't laugh too loudly at your own jokes 或者 你 will look like a tool and might turn her off, girls don't always respond sexually to confidence, but an outgoing girl will - humor is an attractive quality. For instance, it's probably a good time to 吻乐队（Kiss） that girl when you're watching a movie where the mad moments are happening. It'll ease the tension and you'll be able to laugh it off after, but only if she likes the movie.
2) Use a nice, romantic spot. Girls will think it's amazingly romantic when the first 吻乐队（Kiss） is at sunset, an empty grassy meadow under the stars, a deck on a lake at night, on the beach, on a paddle 船, 小船 at a 老友记 pond at night, 或者 a private camp fire. Usually early dawn 或者 midnight scenes can be considered lovely. But 你 don't have to. Just make sure 你 are sincere in what 你 are doing.
3) Be bold. Go for it! Lean in for the kiss. Lean in slowly!! Don't be too fast about it. While 你 get closer, slowly close your eyes and stop leaning about half an inch away from your girl's lips. If she's ready, she'll lean in and 吻乐队（Kiss） you! Try a peck for your first kiss, then 移动 on to longer, 更多 passionate kisses when you're ready for it. Say sweet things in between kisses, it also allows 你 time to breathe.
4) Use the other hand to stroke her hair 或者 neck. But leave your hand on the back of her neck 或者 hold her in place, girls may feel loved and cared for and like it. For them, it tingles a bit and makes them feel warm inside.
5) Find what 你 were talking about before and keep going if you're not 接吻 her anymore. Don't act strange, she might get the wrong impression. She remembers 你 how 你 were before the kiss, and 你 want that not to change too much.
6) Remain just a little touchy-feely after the kiss. 你 don't want to leave her not wanting more, 或者 she might think 你 dislike her 或者 even want to break up. Stroke her back, her cheek, the back of her neck. Comb through her hair a bit.
7) Girls do a lot of talking about the first kiss. Where will it be? What kind of 吻乐队（Kiss） will it be? If 你 are young, and the girl is hyper, then 你 don't want to disappoint her with just a 吻乐队（Kiss） on the cheek. 吻乐队（Kiss） her on the lips. Draw back, smile at her. If she is responding positively, then go in again, this time using the mouth, opening the lips, and maybe adding some tongue action. Make sure the first 吻乐队（Kiss） is in a special place - never in the 电影院 (this may depend on the person). On a hill, on the stage in a deserted theatre, 由 a 喷泉 in a secluded park.
8) If she doesn't talk about the first 吻乐队（Kiss） a ton, she might be waiting for the right time. Most guys never know the right time, so here's the hints:
She will lean towards you, maybe even lay her head on your shoulder.
She won't pull away when 你 hold her hand.
She'll smile when 你 say her name in a loving and compasionate tone.
She'll ask to meet 你 places.
She might seem a bit clingy at times.
She won't make 你 go away when she's upset with you. If anything, she'll want to hear 你 say "I 爱情 you," 或者 "I'm so sorry," 或者 "Can 你 forgive me?"
She will start conversations, make a joke, do things that guys do but like a girl.
9) Don't be afraid to catch it. Sometimes, 你 just never know when it's the right time. Girls can be very closed at times, so she may not be giving 你 all the warning signs that she wants to be kissed. Sometimes, signals that usually mean she isn't open to physical contact (such as crossed arms, looking away, etc.) may mean that she is just nervous (especially if she's never kissed a guy, 或者 maybe not kissed many guys, so she is inexperienced) and isn't sure what to do, 或者 how to make the first move. If this is what she is doing, 你 will simply have to rely on your instincts. If she is doing any of the following, then 你 will simply have to use your male instincts, and be the hunter. If she is doing any of the signs below, then go in for the kill!
Glancing at you, and quickly looking away when 你 see her
Blushing when 你 talk to her
If she is biting her lip
10) If this this doesn't work, and she seems surprised 或者 embarrased that 你 kissed her (in an uncomfortable way) then don't freak out. Everyone messes up, and it's not the end of the world if this one girl doesn't like you. It gave 你 some experience on dealing with shy girls. 你 shouldn't feel bad, 或者 ashamed of yourself for 接吻 her. Instead, feel proud that 你 braved up to a shy girl and tried your best! There's always 更多 鱼 in the sea. If she is unusally mean 或者 rude and rants on to all of her 老友记 about how 你 "kissed her" and laughs as 你 walk by, look her straight in the eye, roll your eyes and say "Grow up". 你 don't want to be with someone like that anyway. In 9 out of 10 cases however, she will simply 移动 on. She may like it (if she was nervous) and 你 can ask her out again on another night! Good luck!
1)Make her comfortable 由 making a joke, and don't laugh too loudly at your own jokes 或者 你 will look like a tool and might turn her off, girls don't always respond sexually to confidence, but an outgoing girl will - humor is an attractive quality. For instance, it's probably a good time to 吻乐队（Kiss） that girl when you're watching a movie where the mad moments are happening. It'll ease the tension and you'll be able to laugh it off after, but only if she likes the movie.
2) Use a nice, romantic spot. Girls will think it's amazingly romantic when the first 吻乐队（Kiss） is at sunset, an empty grassy meadow under the stars, a deck on a lake at night, on the beach, on a paddle 船, 小船 at a 老友记 pond at night, 或者 a private camp fire. Usually early dawn 或者 midnight scenes can be considered lovely. But 你 don't have to. Just make sure 你 are sincere in what 你 are doing.
3) Be bold. Go for it! Lean in for the kiss. Lean in slowly!! Don't be too fast about it. While 你 get closer, slowly close your eyes and stop leaning about half an inch away from your girl's lips. If she's ready, she'll lean in and 吻乐队（Kiss） you! Try a peck for your first kiss, then 移动 on to longer, 更多 passionate kisses when you're ready for it. Say sweet things in between kisses, it also allows 你 time to breathe.
4) Use the other hand to stroke her hair 或者 neck. But leave your hand on the back of her neck 或者 hold her in place, girls may feel loved and cared for and like it. For them, it tingles a bit and makes them feel warm inside.
5) Find what 你 were talking about before and keep going if you're not 接吻 her anymore. Don't act strange, she might get the wrong impression. She remembers 你 how 你 were before the kiss, and 你 want that not to change too much.
6) Remain just a little touchy-feely after the kiss. 你 don't want to leave her not wanting more, 或者 she might think 你 dislike her 或者 even want to break up. Stroke her back, her cheek, the back of her neck. Comb through her hair a bit.
7) Girls do a lot of talking about the first kiss. Where will it be? What kind of 吻乐队（Kiss） will it be? If 你 are young, and the girl is hyper, then 你 don't want to disappoint her with just a 吻乐队（Kiss） on the cheek. 吻乐队（Kiss） her on the lips. Draw back, smile at her. If she is responding positively, then go in again, this time using the mouth, opening the lips, and maybe adding some tongue action. Make sure the first 吻乐队（Kiss） is in a special place - never in the 电影院 (this may depend on the person). On a hill, on the stage in a deserted theatre, 由 a 喷泉 in a secluded park.
8) If she doesn't talk about the first 吻乐队（Kiss） a ton, she might be waiting for the right time. Most guys never know the right time, so here's the hints:
She will lean towards you, maybe even lay her head on your shoulder.
She won't pull away when 你 hold her hand.
She'll smile when 你 say her name in a loving and compasionate tone.
She'll ask to meet 你 places.
She might seem a bit clingy at times.
She won't make 你 go away when she's upset with you. If anything, she'll want to hear 你 say "I 爱情 you," 或者 "I'm so sorry," 或者 "Can 你 forgive me?"
She will start conversations, make a joke, do things that guys do but like a girl.
9) Don't be afraid to catch it. Sometimes, 你 just never know when it's the right time. Girls can be very closed at times, so she may not be giving 你 all the warning signs that she wants to be kissed. Sometimes, signals that usually mean she isn't open to physical contact (such as crossed arms, looking away, etc.) may mean that she is just nervous (especially if she's never kissed a guy, 或者 maybe not kissed many guys, so she is inexperienced) and isn't sure what to do, 或者 how to make the first move. If this is what she is doing, 你 will simply have to rely on your instincts. If she is doing any of the following, then 你 will simply have to use your male instincts, and be the hunter. If she is doing any of the signs below, then go in for the kill!
Glancing at you, and quickly looking away when 你 see her
Blushing when 你 talk to her
If she is biting her lip
10) If this this doesn't work, and she seems surprised 或者 embarrased that 你 kissed her (in an uncomfortable way) then don't freak out. Everyone messes up, and it's not the end of the world if this one girl doesn't like you. It gave 你 some experience on dealing with shy girls. 你 shouldn't feel bad, 或者 ashamed of yourself for 接吻 her. Instead, feel proud that 你 braved up to a shy girl and tried your best! There's always 更多 鱼 in the sea. If she is unusally mean 或者 rude and rants on to all of her 老友记 about how 你 "kissed her" and laughs as 你 walk by, look her straight in the eye, roll your eyes and say "Grow up". 你 don't want to be with someone like that anyway. In 9 out of 10 cases however, she will simply 移动 on. She may like it (if she was nervous) and 你 can ask her out again on another night! Good luck!
