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nad7988 said:
1. first, I want 你 to tell me the worst, most utterly offensively way that 你 can, about how 你 felt about me earlier on that day. As best 你 can, take your time, and don’t leave any hurtful little details out.
2. how much of that do 你 still feel?
3. anything else 你 wanna add about why 你 were so mad? (emotional?)….anything??
4. …k. I want 你 to know that I understand just about everything 你 were saying and that all makes perfect sense to me(except: blah, blah blah). I wanted to hear the way 你 felt about it first, before I told 你 how I feel.
5. First, I’ll say the strongest way I felt about the situation.
6. Secondly, now that I had time to think about it, I considered your view of it, and like I 说 before, I completely understand (Points: A, B, C, etc.)
7. How about you, do 你 understand a little bit better how I saw things?
8. You know I never meant to (all the negative things she saw)
9. The rest should work its way out.
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