Does this make me a bad person?

to me, that would not make 你 a bad person. honestly my dad is no part of my life either. He was in jail all my life and only got out of jail when i was 9 and then a 年 later got back in jail. so if i ever got married, i would not invite him either. So it would not make u a bad person at all. and good luck getting married

Eh the concept of fairly over pushed onto us as children. Sometimes family sucks and sometimes "family" isnt REALLY family. If 你 dont like your father, dont get along with him, 或者 whatever, 你 arent obliged to welcome him in on your special day. Don't feel bad about it.

I really have a... lets just say poor relationship with my father so I get you.

He still calls so deep inside his 心 he still cares. Even if he doesn't 显示 it. It's your wedding. Big day. Let bygones be bygones. Invite him for the sake of your happiness. 你 wouldn't go through the marrage without feeling guilt ,come on he is not an 天使 be a sweetheart life is still good,you nener know he might change to be a better person if not 你 sill his daughter and 你 did your part inviting him even if he didnt 显示 up at least he knows 你 care,unless 你 dont give a fuck then ..yep

Whether 你 should invite him 或者 not is entirely up to you. As someone who pretty much shares the same experience with my own Father, I can understand your dilemma. I wouldn't say that there is right 或者 wrong here actually. The matter is pretty subjective. No, this certainly doesn't make 你 a bad person either. If 你 feel like 你 are forcing yourself to approach him, then there's no need for 你 to do that. After all, shouldn't it be HIS responsibility, first and foremost? From the other hand, if 你 see that he is really trying and both of 你 desire for your relationship to improve, then go for it. No need for hesitation. Better attempt now than regretting it later and be left wondering. Whatever 你 decide to do doesn't really affect 你 as a person in my opinion. No need to feel bad over it. Simply go with the choice that feels the most natural to you. Congratulations for your Wedding 由 the way. This is a 日 that 你 ought to make the most of it !!!!

Try and send him one anyway. What have 你 got to lose? If he doesn't 显示 up, at least 你 tried. If he does 显示 up, 你 can at least get sometime to bond together, and improve your relationship.

It doesn't make 你 a bad person.

If I were in that situation I would still send an invite to him and then the ball is in his court. He still calls you, he does care. Some people are just so bad with contact, it's no excuse but it does happen.

With 你 inviting his brother and not him, it could hurt him deeply. I would still invite your dad, and then see his response.

Good luck for your big 日 though :)