Well I'm totally open for discussion because I would 爱情 to hear other peoples opinions, but I think it's somewhat equal, but depends on the situation. For example, with the way 你 dress, I would be leaning towards females because if 你 wear something "short" 或者 "inappropriate" 你 could be labeled a "slut" 或者 looked down upon 由 other people even though the way 你 dress shouldn't affect others. However, when a male dresses "feminine", the could be portrayed as weak and are told to be 更多 "manly". A similar thing to this is sometimes when a girl loses her virginity they are viewed as "impure", but when a male hasn't 迷失 his virginity, they could be seen as an incel 或者 also looked down upon for that. So like I 说 before I think it is mostly equal and just depends on the situation because each gender has its own expectations and stigmas they must overcome which all adds to their reputation. Although all these things in my opinion should be abolished and ended.