Nitpicking your relationships?

How often do 你 do that? 由 relationships, I imply all sort of rel...Your mom, siblings, friend, partner anyone? Like...always focusing too much on whether they replied to 你 或者 not. 或者 whether they ignoring 你 或者 not. Well, I used to do that when I was a teenager, but I learned that "expectation" is the root problem. At first, I had a tough time not expecting anything. Later I have become totally immune to this. I do 爱情 and care about my loved ones, but I really don't care whether they care me/ 爱情 me. If they do, then that's good. If they don't, I could care less. My ego is zero. Especially if it's a text based communication, I even care less than real life. That doesn't mean idc about that person, but I don't expect anything from them and neither do I hold myself responsible for their expectation.