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whats wrong with him?

ok so i have this coworker, he is a very good looking cocky selfish guy
he talks to everyone and he is quit nice to them
he laughs he jokes
whatever
and he really likes another coworker but she ignores him
i am the only one he is not even saying hi to. he REALLY ignores me
and when i say hi he doesnt even reply
and everyone has noticed it
today one of the girls went to him and 说 嘿 why dont u talk to her and stuff, he was like oh i dont even want to talk to her!
i really dont know whats wrong with him
i have done nothing to him so he'll hate me
and im not like into him so he will be ignoring me
he is just not talking to me for nothing
what the heck is wrong with him?
 Angel_W posted 一年多以前
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EgoMouse said:
Ich weiß nicht. I'm not a mind reader.
He doesn't want to talk, there's nothing wrong with that.
To be honest, I'd be pretty damn annoyed if I was expected to respond to everyone.
>cocky selfish
...Erm, exactly why do 你 want to force this guy to talk to you?
If he's selfish and he doesn't want to talk to you, then simply 你 have nothing to offer him. 你 have nothing that can accomplish his goals. Advice, say something that is interesting to him 或者 say something about his popularity.
...This is an assumption, which means it might be false. I take no responsibility if the consequences backfires on you.
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posted 一年多以前 
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i dont want to force him into anything, we all work there, and im just wondering what ive done wrong so hes like this, if it was normal, i would be fine, but hes doing it on purpose and i just want to know what i might have done wrong
Angel_W posted 一年多以前
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he is selfish, thinks everyone dies for him (thats what he says himself) andtheres no guy better and 更多 goodlooking than him
Angel_W posted 一年多以前
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你 probably didn't do anything and you're likely not going to have the right answer from us. Though, the 秒 part sounds 更多 like vanity/narcissism than selfishness. Narcissistic people can be selfish, but not all selfish people are narcissistic.
EgoMouse posted 一年多以前
nmdis said:
Of course I can't read his mind. But if he ignores 你 why do 你 want to have a chit chat with him? Do 你 like him? If yes. Then 你 just have to do one thing. Ignore him as much as possible if he is with some other co workers of your go and talk to them but ignore him. Not even response to his jokes. He will definitely try to talk to 你 to know the reason (because 你 tried to talk with him before and now 你 won't) And when he will just tell him the reason that 你 are ignoring him because he doesn't want to know 你 better. It's in all humans behaviour.


I hope it helped you.
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posted 一年多以前 
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no i dont like him and i never tried to talk to him, im always there sooner than him, so when he comes in i say hi, he doesnt reply to mine, i have never 说 anything else than hi to him, anyways he didnt answer it few time i dont say hi anymore either
Angel_W posted 一年多以前
Lovehinagurl44 said:
He seems kinda stuck up to me
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