How to 你 feel about 问题 that ask 你 to 列表 your best 老友记 或者 who are your 最喜爱的 users?

I personally find them a bit unfair at times. I mean,for the first 问题 really,if your friend doesn't post you,it like hurts your feelings and it can upset many users. Same for the 秒 question. A lot of users might not be on the lists people make and it can upset them greatly.