Since this has happened to me before (not too long 以前 about a year) I can honestly say that either they have moves on and has changed 或者 doesn't want to be your friend just because they have a new view on life. I 迷失 a close friend of mine a summer 以前 and she has done the same thing 你 are questioning now. I asked her about it, she didn't want to talk to me plus she was now 老友记 with a person that I has a problem with. She had the guts to tell this girl to tell me that she didn't want to be my friend anymore. At first.I didn't believe it cuz who would, but afterwards, she (as in my ex friend) told me to.leave. The girl told me to leave in a meaner way. We basically cussed each other out. I almost fought her. Then my ex. friend was saying that she was my friend and I was good. Then the 下一个 day, she says she's not my friend anymore because I'm annoying and talk too much and talk crap,behind peoples back but I don't play that. That's when I realized that's she fake.and I can't trust someone that's fake.
posted 一年多以前
That's mean, she could try saying that in a nice way 或者 just keep her mouth shut, she shouldn't be mean, what did 你 do?
my 老友记 ( besties) didn't want me to get suspended....AGAIN....so I walked away furious to the office to calm myself down. after that I went to the counselor and has a conflict resolution which didn't work anyways and after that I just ignored them and never talked to.my so called BFF ever again. but I still.are her and not speak to her til this day. she's them main reason. why I done fully trust people like I used to anymore
The same exact thing happened to me. 你 can either confront them, yell at them, 或者 give them the silent treatment when they suddenly want to start talking again.
i 移动 on i've had this incident occur to me for the past few years. i've had 老友记 who 移动 away, who don't speak to me anymore (although tbh the blame should really be put on me since i'm not gonna go approach them. i'm not a conversation starter) something like this occurring is nothing new to me. is it a good way to deal w/ such a situation? no, i wouldn't say so.
I would confront them and ask them y there not talking to me, and we would try to fix whatever problem. And if they still decide to ignore me then forget them, but u say that the 老友记 have been nice to 你 for a long time. Do u mean a 年 and over, few months? If they don't like me anymore then they were never my true friends.
posted 一年多以前
Exactly!! I learned that last 年 as my answer states.
It's happened to me and I have been guilty of it- even just right here recently! I feel terrible & i try to make up for what I can. I just feel sad and depressed. I kinda feel that way anyway around my birthday time & mine is coming up yet again.
If I do not tell people they do not know. the problem is I really don't like to... So when what happened to 你 happens to me, I realise I have to reach out to THEM, I have to reach out to others in order for people to reach out to me.
People go through things, and it hurts, but if they like 你 或者 爱情 you, they will care and 你 could mention that 你 just had a birthday and ask if they want to go do something maybe.
