Is this really too much to ask for??!!

你 do' nt have to do anything 你 do not want to .

if 你 do ' nt want a boyfriend in high school , thats perfectly fine , 你 should never try to rush these things because other people are doing it .

and i have the same needs for a man , as 你 do .

just keep looking he will come around .

is it bad to have preferences? absolutely not.

there is no problem in looking for someone who 你 want to 日期 with your 给 preferences. however sometimes a dose of reality is in need. keep in mind that not everyone's gonna fit your image, and if they do they won't be the best of persons all the time. i suppose what people mean 由 "unrealistic" is that 你 won't find anyone looking for a set few characteristics. my choice would be to let things happen naturally, but of course that's my choice. you're free to take whatever path 你 want

the only thing negative i find about what 你 say is 你 complaining about it. 你 wanna find someone thats great good for 你 but honestly those sorts of 评论 are better of kept between friends, not anonymous strangers on the internet who have far less nice things to say

你 probably have someone like that in your life, in the friendzone. Poor guy.

Hmm, no it´s not. I think that it doesn´t necessarily have to be hot.I really don´t care if the boy is hot 或者 not, I just care that he respects people,to be honest, smart,kind and that he doesn´t brag stuff.

Nope

it is not! don't let anybody pressure 你 into being something you're not! i mean, you're not a drone, everyone is "not" going to be the same, and high-school kids can't seem to understand that, in high-school, there are a lot of groups and possies and the 格言 is, be like us, 或者 get out of the club, but later on you'll see that all of that doesn't matter, but 你 matter, and your hapiness matters, so i say follow your 心 girl :) i think you'll be happier that way sweetie, than if 你 follow somebody elses 心 XD 或者 be who somebody else thinks 你 should be, trust me, i've tried to please people, it DOESN'T work! for me at least, all 你 can really so "is" be yourself, turns out, that's what works best, so good luck dearie, just relax, sit back and take life one step at a time because the people who mind don't matter and the people who matter don't mind :P 哈哈 (this isn't always true though) anyways, good luck! :D