随意

回答这一问题

随意 问题

So about this guy...

Was it alright for me to tell my friend the honest truth on how I really felt about him even though I have a boy friend? I mean I sort of have a crush on him and I can't believe it. Why did he have to go and ask me that if I didn't have a boy friend that would I like him 更多 then just a friend? I really honestly 爱情 my boy friend though. My boy friend is the best. I 爱情 my boy friend with all of my heart. I must be so terrible. How could I possibly have a crush on another guy if I already have such a wonderful boy friend? I mean I am not going to cheat on him, cause I'm not the cheating type. I told him that I would never cheat. Should I even talk to this friend of mine anymore? It makes me really happy to talk to him. I thought about also telling my boy friend about it, but he may just think I'm cheating, get his feelings hurt and break up with me. He's such a good boy friend though and he's always been very good and faithful to me. I just 爱情 him so much. I feel terrible. What should I do about all of this? I already told the other guy how much I 爱情 my boy friend and that we could never be 更多 then just friends.
 MewStrawberry posted 一年多以前
next question »

随意 答案

TheOnlyBoss said:
well i think that even though 你 might say 你 爱情 ur boyfriend i think u should follow ur 心 and be with that guy and tell ur boyfriend the truth.. also follw ur heart*
hope that helps:)
 select as best answer
posted 一年多以前 
*
No, that's not what I'm saying. I 爱情 my boy friend and I don't want to be with that other guy. I 爱情 my boy friend the most. I'm just wondering that why all of sudden I get a crush on some other guy? Is it even possible to still be in 爱情 with your boy friend, while accidentally having a crush someone else? I want to be with my boy friend, not him.
MewStrawberry posted 一年多以前
*
TheOnlyBoss, ofcourse it's just my opinion but i don't think breaking up with somebody everytime 你 have a crush is the way to go :P
coriann posted 一年多以前
*
MewStrawberry, 你 have a crush, that does not make 你 a bad person :)
coriann posted 一年多以前
*
Its not like I'm going to break up with my boy friend. I feel that in my 心 that I know he's the one who means 更多 to me. I just felt guilty for having a crush on that guy that's all and thinking of how my boy friend would feel about it. I really 爱情 my boy friend the most though. I only like this guy and it was just like a crush. I think he might still like me though.
MewStrawberry posted 一年多以前
coriann said:
It's an attraction sweetie, it happens all the time. If 你 beak up with your boyfriend and be with the guy, 你 will still 爱情 你 boyfriend and have to get over him. If 你 stay with your boyfriend 你 will probably feel a little something for the guy but that's alright. An attraction happens automatically without us trying, 爱情 is a choice that 你 make only when 你 felt you've found the right person and 你 are also attracted to them, lol, cause if 你 weren't attracted to them then that would defeat the whole purpose, anyways, 你 already know who 你 are attracted to, now it's the time to figure out who 你 want to love, who 你 want to be with and stay faithful too ^ ^
你 are not a horrible person, just a mammal who is bound 由 such feelings as love, it's just as natural as being hungry 或者 needing to pee, now ofcourse this is just my opinion, i could be wrong but it's still always good to try to help, good luck sweetie ^ ^
 select as best answer
posted 一年多以前 
*
i hope 你 gained "something" useful from this, 哈哈
coriann posted 一年多以前
*
Thank you.
MewStrawberry posted 一年多以前
*
any time :)
coriann posted 一年多以前
Me-Iz-Here said:
its totally normal to have crushes on other people, dont worry about it
the crush will most likely go away soon, just wait it out and continue to be 老友记 with the guy!! no need to mess anything up here
and if 你 wanna talk to your boyfriend 或者 not it's your choice (shouldnt really matter), but he should understand and be fine with it. if he isn't, then he's not a good boyfriend anyway
 select as best answer
posted 一年多以前 
*
If I told my boy friend about this...Well he is a depressed, Bipolar and Schizophrenic guy. So he could get hurt easily. He may think that he's worthless and not good enough for me. He always gets like that, but I guess I don't have to tell him about it. I just felt guilty that's all 或者 is okay to just keep this a secret? I would really rather not say anything, because this is just a crush after all. I'm not in 爱情 with the other guy.
MewStrawberry posted 一年多以前
*
if 你 think it's best not to tell him, 你 dont have to! after all, it's not a huge thing. attraction to other people is just natural, no need to feel too guilty.
Me-Iz-Here posted 一年多以前
Hiding 3 comments... click to show.
*
I think I might decide to just not say anything. He already thinks that he's not good enough for me, which I keep reassuring him that he is. So that would just crush him even 更多 to tell him what happened and may get the wrong idea. I'm getting so sick of a lot of guys coming on to me lately. I know they can't help how they feel about me, but geez...And then out of all of those other guys. I just happen to crush on this very one at the moment. I hate all of this pressure from so many guys.
MewStrawberry posted 一年多以前
laura199627 said:
If it makes 你 happy to talk to your friend, well go ahead. Life is about making things that make 你 happy. And if 你 have special feelings for him, follow your heart. But if 你 really really 爱情 your boyfriend, 你 decide.
 select as best answer
posted 一年多以前 
next question »
Cookies help us bring you Fanpop. By using Fanpop, you agree to our use of cookies. Learn More Got It!