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Why are people so negative?

Latley, I've been noticing that many people, on the internet and in real life, are very negative. Out of nowhere, they start liking dark things, and try sounding deep.
My theory is that these kind of people are trying to sound dark to be cooler, but I don't really know. What do 你 think?
 xxXsk8trXxx posted 一年多以前
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storylover said:
Agree with 你 , but 你 should know If 你 don't believe In yourself ,they will succeed to upset you
Just Expect the worst Matter and find solution
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posted 一年多以前 
X-Squirt-X said:
BECAUSE WE HATE EVERYTHING.
I think it's some way of attention seeking 或者 to seem 更多 mature. But because we're young, we're not sure on how to be yet.
或者 maybe going through that stage, especially girls. Hehe.
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posted 一年多以前 
r-pattz said:
Meh. I'm one of those "negative" people. I can explain myself to you, and what I say is probably true for some other people out there as well, but I can't speak for everyone.

In my case, the negativity is caused 由 two things. The first is that I've seen and been through a lot of shit, and the negatives outweigh the positives in my life. 你 know, shitty and occasionally abusive parents, 老友记 that have died, relationships ending in heartbreak, etc. The 秒 reason is due to my sexuality and this homophobic society.

Now, I think that people who are "deep" normally have been through stuff like that, 或者 at least have been/are in love. They've seen and experienced stuff that others haven't, stuff that opens them up 或者 hardens them, stuff that changes them. Sure, maybe there are a few who do it to sound cooler, but I think most of the people would become deeper because of personal experiences.

And really, as 你 grow up, 你 begin seeing what the world is really like. Some people stop believing in happily ever afters. 你 begin seeing death and war and sickness and poverty and hatred and cruelty and unfairness. Shit like that changes people.

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posted 一年多以前 
PaisleyPark said:
Not sure.

I used to think it was impossible to be happy...

But, it really isn't that hard.

I mean, 你 gotta put some effort into being happy and not focusing on the negative things in life.

Happiness really is a choice.
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