I'm glad I was able to help in some ways, relationships are not something I'm an expert at. But at the same time, who truly is an expert in the end, I guess? :)
Remember, it's ok to stay calm. This is drama everyone goes through at some point in their lives. It may seem big to you, but people go through it every fay. If he's a friend and likes 你 back, he may just be afraid to approach you. Or, he may not be into you. If he really likes 你 back, he could understand how afraid 你 must be and would understand. (A bit repetitive, huh?)