Best Friend? Do 你 think you’re a good friend? Do this 测试 and find out you’re “best friend” rating

1)If your best friend phoned to say he/she was depressed, would you:
a. Go to his/her house and cheer him/her up?
b. Chat for a few 分钟 on the phone?
c. Tell him/her not to be silly and to go out for a jog?

2)If someone in your class criticized your friend behind his/her back, would you:
a .Ignore the person and walk away?
b. Agree with the parts wich are true?
c. Tell the person to shut up?

3)If 你 saw your friend’s boyfriend/girlfriend out with someone else, would you:
a.Phone your friend immediately about it?
b.Suggest that the boy/girlfriend isn’t the right person for your friend?
c.Pretend 你 haven’t seen anything?

4)If your friend wanted to borrow a 最喜爱的 item of clothing, would you:
a.Refuse because 你 think your friend will look better than 你 in it?
b.Agree but say 你 want it washed 或者 cleaned afterwards?
c.Agree and say how good he/she looks in it?

5)If 你 saw your friend cheating in an exam, would you:
a.Signal to your friend to stop?
b.Say nothing?
c.Tell the teacher immediately?

6)If 你 说 something hurtful to your friend in an argument, would you:
a.Try to explain why 你 说 it?
b.Say nothing because 你 were pleased 你 说 it?
c.Apologie and say 你 didn’t mean it?
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Scoring:
1>> a) 3 b) 2 c) 1
2 >>a) 2 b) 1 c) 3
3 >>a) 1 b) 3 c) 2
4>> a) 1 b) 2 c) 3
5>> a) 3 b) 2 c) 1
6>> a) 2 b) 1 c) 3

6-9 你 aren’t a very good friend and at times 你 can be quiet mean. 你 aren’t very sympathetic when there’s a problem.

10-12 you’re a good friend most of the time but when it comes to a crisis 你 are not always reliable. 你 can be a bit bossy and 你 don’t like to make trouble for yourself.

13-18 你 are sensitive, loyal and generous. 你 help people when they are in trouble. You’re a good friend to have.