A 问题 for 你 female Fanpoppers/female members of Fanpop. Gay guys can answer this too

Eh, it depends on what we mean 由 "sensitive" here. Are we describing someone who is emotionally vulnerable/needy, someone that is delicate with another person's feelings, 或者 are we using it as a vague synonym for "whiny baby"/being easily offended? I myself don't think of being sensitive as being whiny, but that's how most people seem to mean it, so that's kind of what I'm assuming here.


To avoid typing 更多 of an essay than I inevitably will anyway, I'm going to make the pretty broad and general statement of "it depends". I couldn't deal with someone who was on the extreme side of it- because I'm kind of on the extreme side of it- but I couldn't really deal with anyone who thought they were a literal emotionless computer 或者 anything.
I need people that are tough enough to be able to deal with me when I have emotional outbursts. But I also need someone that's emotionally needy enough to let me take care of them, be clingy, 讨好, 小鹿 over them, and worship the ground they step on. I also need someone that's gentle with emotions because "tough love" just doesn't work for me and it makes whatever situation I'm in worse.

In terms of friendship it still really depends. My only real stipulation is if the person siphons the life out of me 或者 thinks every negative situation they go through is worse than what any of our other 老友记 have gone through ever. I don't have patience for that anymore.




I guess if we're just straight up talking about someone that's easily offended, whines a lot, 或者 is upset about nearly everything, then it's kind of a no-brainer that most people would find such a person to be difficult to deal with.

I wouldnt 日期 anyone who is overly sensitive. If 你 cant take my sarcasm and my jokes and find everything offensive and all, then I REALLY cant 日期 you. This applies to guys and girls.

However it depends on what 你 mean 由 'overly sensitive'. I like a guy with emotions cos that whole 'manly-no-emotions' really sucks. So if 你 mean they might be a bit needy 或者 might miss me 或者 whatever Im cool with that.

Im cool with sensitivity as long as its not crying, anger, and offense towards habits I do naturally.

(Bi guys could answer this, too...)
I'd tell them "suck it up, buttercup".

If I like the guy so much that he becomes my significant other, chances are that if he's oversensitive it's 更多 than compensated for 由 positive traits.

If I don't like him enough for him to be my significant other 或者 my friend (meaning he doesn't have enough positive traits), then the oversensitivity will get on my nerves but I'll just dismiss him as melodramatic.

If he's already my friend I guess we might have a lot of debates over whatever he's sensitive about.

I don't know if I could do that because I have literally no filter. I say what I want to. I don't like walking on eggshells with people. For the sake of not wanting to offend someone over and over again without meaning to I don't think I'd be able to 日期 someone who is overly offended. It's just not fair for either of us.
I'm not compatible with that kind of person male 或者 female.

I can say that with certainty because I used to be bff's with this girl who took every single joke I made to heart/offensively. Eventually I kind of just told her that I thought it would be best if we just stopped talking because I was always offending her without meaning to and what not.

I know 你 probably don't want to take relationship 建议 from a whore like me, but I have one piece of 建议 that has saved my relationship time and time again.

Don't talk to 潮流粉丝俱乐部 about your relationship problems, talk to your man about your relationship problems. 你 can't solve anything 由 getting pre-conceived ideas from a bunch of idiots on the internet, and then trying to apply them to your relationship.

So, talk to him.

If these two here can do it, so can you.

移动 on! I don't want to be with someone THAT uptight.

someone like that? I would dump them

WHAT THE FUC* !!!!?!?!?