Suicides
The biggest issue that has come to mind is when one ends one’s life. Why they do this? 你 would probably say,” Don’t they know they’ll probably go to hell?” I’ll tell you, that they don’t care. 你 don't have to be crazy to think about it or, for that matter, even to try it. Suicide is a solution. No matter what anyone tells you, suicide does solve problems, at least your problems. If 你 succeed, it solves them once and for all.
As 你 have no doubt already figured out, once 你 are dead nothing can hurt 你 anymore. Once 你 are dead 你 are beyond feeling bad. Once 你 are dead 你 can't possibly care what happens anymore. Whatever pain 你 are in, it will end just as soon as 你 stop breathing. Since there is no point in kidding each other right here in the beginning, I won't argue with 你 that suicide doesn't work. It does. 或者 at least it seems to. Before this time in your life, my guess is that when 你 heard people say they felt like killing themselves, 你 thought they were crazy. Now, if 你 were in their place, maybe 你 can see how they felt. For whatever reasons people think it, most of them will say 你 are crazy for thinking about suicide.
Or, if 你 kill yourself, they will say 你 must have been crazy to have done it. But the truth is that most people who kill themselves are not mentally ill, at least in the way we think of people who are “out of their minds.” Yes, people who are psychotic sometimes kill themselves, but most people who die 由 suicide are people just like 你 and me; people who, have decided that life is just not worth living anymore. The great majority of people who attempt 或者 complete a suicide are so sad 或者 hopeless 或者 angry that they simply can't stand life anymore. 或者 they have been dealt such a terrible blow 由 life that they are overwhelmed and can see no other way to end the feelings of loss, stop the suffering and regain control over their future. But they are not crazy. And, most likely, neither are you.    
Why do they do this? These victims attempt suicide 或者 commit it because they feel alone, unloved, unwanted in the world, they are constantly depressed, never truly happy with their life, 或者 the people they have to shared it with. So if these people are going through so much pain already, why do they inflict 更多 pain on themselves like the people who cut themselves! Why do they make themselves suffer even more!!? Calling themselves names, making themselves feel like crap! They torture themselves 更多 than the world tortures them.

How do they commit suicide? What do they use? The most common weapon used is the gun, either borrow a gun, 或者 steal one, they manage on finding one. For the teens, most of them hurt themselves with anything sharp. A knife, glass, pencil, blade, toothpick, just anything that can cause pain! Some hang themselves, over-dose, suffocate, and drown. They find themselves alone in their house 或者 quiet room. They have a suicide weapon, no one can stop them, and then it’s all over. It can be slow and painful like cutting 或者 fast and easy with a gun.
What leads them to feel depressed 或者 alone? Many suicides are from teens and young adults. Like for teens, usually family problems. Parents are divorced, young seventeen 年 old sister having two girls, and having them taken away and 给 to your mom. 你 and your family have to deal with infants in the house. You’re frustrated!
All the crying and diaper changing, and 你 didn’t even ask for this!! Mother neglects 你 and pays less attention with your success 或者 school work. Father is not seen for months, turned out he remarried someone twenty years younger than him and didn’t bother telling you. You’ve really just been having suicidal thoughts and only attempting a couple of times but 你 can see that life isn’t going well. Only one who loves 你 is your boyfriend/girlfriend. So what do 你 do if 你 lose that person? 你 crack. 你 attempt to kill yourself 由 choking yourself and banging your head against walls over and over till 你 bleed!!
Nobody cares! They don’t notice the scars, the bruises and the pain that 你 go through.
你 don’t have to be diagnosed with depression to have suicidal thoughts, it just comes with the way life hits you. Some people have it easy and say “life is life, so get over it!” they don’t see how bad some people have it. If they were in that’s persons shoes, they would think differently.
I don't know what kind of parents 你 have. But I do know a few things about families. And I know a few things about the kind of families in which people begin to think about suicide.
To begin with our families are supposed to be the place where we can go to feel secure and loved and respected. When the world is against us, 或者 we are failing 或者 feeling pushed 或者 threatened, it is to our families we are supposed to turn for support and understanding. Families are supposed to be our port in a storm, our place to go when we have nowhere else to turn. But some of us know this isn’t necessarily so!
A boy I knew attempted to hang himself. The rope he tried to use broke and he was did not die. On hearing of this, his father said, "Hell, he can't even do that right!" less and less. As we grow up, we find our 老友记 更多 and 更多 important until, one day, we fall in 爱情 with someone and go off and start families of our own. Our families are the starting line in life, not the finish line. Sometimes it helps to remember that while they are our parents, it isn't like we got to pick them.
Immature Parents. I have met lots of moms and dads who were, except for their age, not much older than their children.
Emotionally they were still teenagers. When their children needed 爱情 and understanding, they just couldn't give it, 或者 didn't know how. So at least one thing 你 might think about is whether 或者 not your parents even know how to give 你 what 你 need.
Sometimes our parents were no 更多 than children when they had us. They had dreams and plans and hopes to do something with their lives and, for lots of reasons, maybe they never got to do these things. So they are frustrated.
你 and your brothers and sisters started coming along and, before they knew it, they had a family and bills and obligations, and their dreams, however badly they wanted to see them come true, began to disappear. As sad as it is, some parents blame their children for their own unhappiness.
They say, "If I hadn't had you, I could have been..." and 你 can fill in the blanks. This is a heavy load. To my way of thinking each of us is responsible, in large part, for our own happiness. If we don't live our dreams and push for the things we want and take control of our own futures, then we don't have anyone to blame but ourselves.
It is just not right 或者 fair to blame our children. What I want 你 to understand is that while your parents may blame 你 for their unhappiness, 你 don't have to buy it. 你 don't, as I've seen many kids do, have to accept their blaming 你 for making their lives miserable. If 你 are the one who is holding them back from their dreams and making them unhappy, then maybe the thing to do is to relieve them of this burden (you) and kill yourself.
Maybe 你 have thought, "If I just killed myself, my mother could be happy. She could go back to school and do all the things she says she wants to do. I'm just in the way."Let me suggest something to you. What if I told 你 that even if 你 killed yourself, she would probably not be happy and, in fact, she would be unhappy? Because now, in addition to whatever other failures she has had, your killing yourself makes her a complete failure as a mother.
If I had to bet on what they would do after your suicide, it would be that they would simply find someone else to blame for why they don't live up to their dreams. Killing yourself to get out of the way is no solution to your parents' unhappiness. Their unhappiness is their problem, not yours.
Angry Parents.
The lack of 爱情 and understanding from immature parents is one kind of pain a child sometimes has to live with, but there is something worse. Sometimes your parents are angry and hostile and openly fight with each other. Sometimes they seem to be at war with one another and they may even hit each other. There is name-calling and swearing.
There may even be threats to kill each other. 或者 one parent may threaten suicide to get back at the other. One of the things that happen to kids caught in angry families like this is that the parents may say, "If it wasn't for the kids, I'd leave!" Or, "If it wasn't for these damned kids, I would have left 你 years ago!" When 你 hear this what do 你 think?
What 你 think is that you're standing in the way of what they say they want 你 start wondering what 你 can do to solve their problems.     
For good reason, lots of kids begin to assume that they are the 来源 of their parents' problems with each other and that, if they simply got out of the picture, their parents would be able to be happy and be back in 爱情 with each other. What's worse, the parents let them think this way.
There are many incidents like a mother brought her daughter to the emergency room after the girl had taken several dozen aspirin tablets in an effort to die. "She didn't mean it,” the mother told the doctor. "It was an accident. She just didn't know what she was doing. She certainly didn't mean to harm herself. Don't worry, after I take her 首页 Lord knows we didn't teach her to act like that!
I'll ground her for a month!"Are these loving parents? Probably. Do they know what to do with their suicidal child? Nope. As upset as these parents were, each of them did something parents often do when they've had the wits scared out of them they blamed the victim.
It happens all the time. If 你 think that 由 trying suicide 你 are suddenly going to have loving parents, 你 might be wrong. 你 might get their attention and your parents may decide that something is wrong, but there is a good chance that what they will do is decide that something is wrong with you, not them.
Having these thoughts and attempting them is one thing, but going through it is hard to do because 你 start thinking about your love, the people and pets 你 would die for. 你 can prevent these thoughts with counseling but most people don’t want that, they want to deal with it their own way, sure that’s okay too, I would probably choose that way too, but I have too much to live for.