How many times he scolds her! He also ignores her when she warns him about Shan-Yu.

I'm talking about the first movie, of course.
Charming was o.k. in the sequels.

Hell,who picked Smith? xp

Anyway, not considering sequels.
Charming didn't care much about her.He just sent some servants to find her. I know, he followed the rules but you know something?love breaks the rules.

He doesn't even bother to search for her personally.

He treats her like a lost dog or something...

Im really sorry I dind't read well the question and i chose Adam, Im really sorry, by the way I agree with all of you.

^ you can change it :)

he was a jerk in the beginning if it were me i wouldve slapped the shit outta beast and not 4gave him

He treated her very unfairly after learning she is a woman. Sure, he didn't kill her but still was pretty mean to her.
I hope Mulan's love interest from upcoming life-action remake will treat her better.

I guess.

I'm not sure. Shang does redeem his over-assertiveness somewhat in the sequel. I don't find him awful in the original.

To me, most of the princes do TRY to do something for their women.