Okay so I have read multiple places on here that "Ariel just left her family for some guy she barely knew" and variations thereof. I coincidentally enough just watched this film within the last 月 and remember it very freshly so I would like to contribute my opinion on this matter. First though, I would like to remind people: These 迪士尼 Princess films do not take place in a modern time and setting. Most of them take place over a 100 years 以前 and are during a time when most people were dead 由 40 and half weren't even making it that long. To put it in perspective, the equivalent of a woman 100 years 以前 at the age of 13-18 is the equivalent of a woman today 更多 at the age of 18-30. This means women matured quicker, got married younger and dated/courted for a much shorter time, if at all, then now.

A. "She left her family for some guy...": First of all, it wasn't only for a guy as Ariel had long been wanting to 加入 the surface but Eric was just the tipping point. Secondly, so what if it was just for a man? That is her future family. At some point most women will leave their childhood family to start a new family and that is a normal part of life for most people. But ultimately, she was willing to risk her life for 爱情 and happiness because she knew exactly what she wanted. She recognized the importance of the future over the past and refused to be stuck in her present. (Though it should be noted that Ursula truly did manipulate and take advantage of Ariel's youth and naivety.)

1. Ariel had wanted to 加入 the surface long before she saw Eric. She was constantly skipping events to go explore. As Sebastian says under his breath just before the 音乐会 near the beginning of the film "If only she'd 显示 up for rehearsals once in a while."



2. The first we see of Ariel, she is exploring and looking for human items which she collects.



3. When Ariel finds a fork in the sunken ship, neither her nor 比目鱼 have any idea what it is. When 比目鱼 asks her if she does know, she responds "I don't know, but I bet Scuttle will." This implies that she has A) gone to the surface before since Scuttle cant swim & B) she has brought him artifacts to identify before. Both of these things 确认 her long-time desire for the human world.



4. It takes a lot of dedication to understanding (or joining) the human world to save a fork & pipe from a shark. She literally gets right in front of it's face to save this bag despite her large collection of other artifacts.

Even Sebastian realizes that Ariel would be miserable without pursuing her chance on land which is why he agrees to help her try to get Eric to fall in 爱情 with her instead of telling on her to Triton immediately.


B. "Some guy she barely knew...": I don't know where people get this from at all. Ariel snuck up to the surface when she saw the fireworks and watched Eric for a LONG time before she rescues him and is separated 由 him.

During this entire time of watching Eric, she learned many things about him:
Grimsby tells Eric that he got him a birthday present and Eric gives him a friendly slap and says "Ah, Grimsby, ya old beanpole, 你 shouldn't have." To which Grimsby 回复 with, "I know." but then gives a sly smile clearly 展示 the positive and somewhat close relationship between the two characters.

1. He plays an instrument and Ariel loves music.

2. He has a good sense of humor as he was joking with Grimsby, his butler.



3. He is not spoiled 或者 selfish as he has a good relationship with his butler and does not talk down to him at all. He treats him almost like an equal. He even has a little nickname "Grim" for him 展示 Eric is not an uptight guy.
Grimsby reveals the statue to which Eric responds, "Uh, gee, Grim... Ha! (clears throat) It's, uh... It's really somethin'." not wanting to offend Grimsby.

4. He is not vain as he was not impressed 由 the statue of himself.

Grimsby tells Eric that he had hoped the statue would be a wedding present. Eric laughs it off and responds, "Come on, Grim. Don't start. Look, you're not still sore because I didn't fall for the Princess of Glowerhaven, are you?"



5. He is picky with women which means he must value and respect women. He doesn't want to just settle for the "princess of Glowerhaven" 或者 any other woman who is attractive. He wants to fall in 爱情 with a woman that he can respect and cherish. ("Oh, she's out there somewhere. I just... I just haven't found her yet.")

6. He is hopeful. He believes that he will find the right girl and that he just hasn't found her "yet".

The storm hits...



7. Eric is not lazy 或者 just some "pretty boy" as he immediately gets hands-on in trying to help secure the ship.

8. Eric is athletic & loyal & 《勇敢传说》 as he jumps off the row 船, 小船 and swims back to the burning ship just to save his dog.

At this point, Ariel knows that Eric is handsome, has a sense of humor, is humble and easygoing, respects women, is hopeful and optimistic, is 《勇敢传说》 and courageous, is loyal and athletic. At this point Ariel knows enough about Eric to know he is a great catch and lots of women would be intrigued 由 a man who can be described the way Ariel can describe Eric here.



Now they separate, her father destroys everything she had of the human world and there is nothing for her to remember it by. Whether 或者 not Triton was right 或者 wrong is a separate issue. On point here, is the fact that she already had a innate tendency towards the human world, she met a human male who was a great catch (and she clearly hadn't fallen in 爱情 with any mermen) and now she was encountered 由 those predators out there in the world who wait for moments of weaknesses like this. Unbeknownst to Ariel, Ursula had been watching her and took this opportunity to manipulate her.



Ariel goes to Ursula and gets her legs and a chance to see if Eric would fall in 爱情 with her and she gets to learn even 更多 about him than before!

9. Eric is not shallow and super loyal. He clearly thinks Ariel is beautiful as he remembers that the woman who saved him was beautiful. When he sees Ariel, he was playing her song on the flute hoping to see her again. When Ariel cannot speak, he assumes it must not have been her and wants to keep searching for his "mystery girl". (He assumes this since normally the voice would be a good way to match the girl.) Ariel's equal beauty wasn't enough to deter him from his loyalty.



Even after Ariel got legs and spent some time with Eric, he didn't want to let go of his "mystery girl". Poor Ariel had to compete with herself. It took 2 日 and nights together plus Grimsby's urging for Eric to even consider letting go of his dream and dating Ariel.



10. Eric is very kind and generous. He sees that Ariel must have been through quite an ordeal so he takes her to his palace for 食物 and shelter. He is incredibly respectful and polite to her the entire time.



11. Eric is light-hearted. As they are rowing out for a romantic 船, 小船 ride, Scuttle is killing the mood with his obnoxious yelling. Eric hears this and says jokingly to Ariel, "Wow. Somebody should find that poor animal and put it out of it's misery."



12. Eric is a perfect gentleman. He spends the entire 日 catering to her and her desires. He takes her to see the puppets, takes her dancing and even lets her "drive" a carriage for the first time. Throughout the entire 日 he doesn't even try to make a 移动 on her, he just spends time with her. Then when things do get 更多 romantic, he is still a perfect gentleman. He doesn't even want to try to 吻乐队（Kiss） Ariel without knowing her name first. Since she cannot speak, he actually tries to guess what her name is. He is really trying to be as accommodating to her and respectful as possible. Sure, part of it is shyness but that shyness stems from a place of morals.



13. Eric is just as passionate about his 爱情 as Ariel is. As a human, he rows out into the ocean and swims down to try and take on the sea witch so as not to lose his dream girl. As he says to Grimsby while he is rowing out, "I already 迷失 her once. I'm not going to lose it again." He is also smart enough to use the ship in Ursula's self-created tornado/tsunami to kill her and save Ariel's life (as well as every other merperson who was captured 由 Ursula as her spell was undone once she was dead).



14. Ariel's family didn't mind that she was in 爱情 and wanted to leave them and 移动 on, they were concerned with her safety over him being a human. This is why her sisters and father were all happy for her when they realized she was in 爱情 and why they were so quick to accept her marriage to Eric once he proved himself 由 killing Ursula and Triton gave Ariel her legs so she could be with him.