"No no no! Heres the thing, I agree with 你 that Elena is 表演 really bad when it comes to the 爱情 of these two brothers, but in this episode I think Rose explained it best. Elena is beyond confused and I truly feel like she’s petrified of Damon’s 爱情 for her. I don’t think she knows what its like to be loved like that, with that much force and that much passion. Its like a ocean wave crashing against you, you’re thrown back and 你 tumble and 你 fall but 你 爱情 it. Somehow, deep inside 你 loved the thrill of it so 你 stand right back up and do it again. Elena is afraid, she’s trembling down to the bone afraid of being loved like that, and honestly I would too. Being loved that intensely is a scary thing, knowing someone thinks that much of 你 and relies on your 爱情 and relies on you; it’s scary because 你 don’t know what to do with it. She has feelings for him, thats blatant; but she doesn’t know how to accept them fully. That’s tough for us to watch because we’re used to things being fast paced in the media world. 你 read a chapter in a book and 你 know despite that cliff hanger, there will be another chapter directly after that. We also know that in an episode of a 显示 if something crazy happens there will be another episode in a week. It’s consistent, yet sometimes very unrealistic. The writers have done an amazing job with Delena, they’re realistic and they don’t just happen in one episode. The journey of their relationship just makes everything all worth it in the end. When 你 spend a 日 working your 屁股 off for something, doesn’t it make the reward in the end all the 更多 sweet? Patience is a virtue and this is definitely one ship 你 have to be patient with. We’ve all spent our moments where we’ve been mad at Damon for lashing out, 或者 Elena for being indecisive; but the writers always somehow bring us back to them.

Don’t stop watching yet, you’ve survived this long. And remember, we’ll survive this, we always survive."
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