建议 on Love, Crushes, and More! 问题
Please help!
Me and my boyfriend have been threw thick and thin. I 爱情 him to death. But it just doesn't feel right anymore. Like in the first 月 或者 so it was a barrel of fun. Now it's stil some fun but not as much. I don't wanna break up with him 或者 mention how I feel. SO what do I do?! PLEASE HELP!
建议 on Love, Crushes, and More! 答案
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sehdt said:
First things first 你 have just gone from the initial I 爱情 you, can not get enough of 你 to the everything always the same problem. All relationships do this be them serious 或者 not. As for what to do about it unless 你 tell him he might never know and so between you, 你 won't be able to change things so sit down and tell him how 你 feel it may well be he has been thinking exactly the same but also had no idea how to tell you. Then once 你 are both talking about it 你 can work out what 你 two can do to bring back the buzz and fun again. 你 may find something simple does it. Hope this helps good luck.
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Solefitjar27 said:
If 你 really don't feel right with him, break-up is probably inevitable, but take a few steps at first to find out why.
Think: Why isn't it the same? What happened? Did he change 或者 did I? And decide if your relationship can be fixed 或者 if breaking up is the best deal.
Don't bring it up to him unless 你 plan to break up. If 你 tell him that the relationship isn't fun anymore, he might try to change himself to keep you. If 你 plan to break up, tell him seriously, but assure him that you're still friends. Prove it 由 still talking to him and hanging with his crew for a while, unless he's annoyed 由 it. Chances are, he's feeling the same way- but is too scared to break it off.
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