Someone please help me my girl friend is hurting herself.

HA! HA! Looky here I see an attention whore.

u should tell her that cutting herslef isn't gonna help her any way ever. she can die from it 你 know? tell her how much 你 爱情 & care for her & if she really cares for 你 back, she would stop. i would seriously advise she gets help & talks to someone. maybe 你 could ask what her problem is & 你 two could sort things out. then maybe, hopefully she'll stop.

That's very tricky. If I were 你 I'd let her know that everything is alright and that her mother does care. Sometimes when 你 are upset 你 start to think people who care about 你 don't. Let her know that cutting isn't good and suggest an alternative like listening to 音乐 或者 阅读 a book. Let her know that 你 care and that you're there for her.

I would tell her that, while it is her choice, there are other ways to go about dealing with your pain. It's not easy if 你 become addicted, but there's ways to stop. Tell her to think about happy times and remind her that 你 爱情 her, that might help. As well, suggest some things to do instead, such as hold an ice cube in her hand 或者 put a rubber band around her wrist and flick it when she feels bad. Though that last option still causes some pain, that itself will help her get over cutting, and cutting is much 更多 dangerous. I'd suggest more, but I can't think well right now, sorry... What's her username?

Then convince her that cutting won't solve anything. Maybe counselling and interventions will help.

Tell her to find a councillor to help her 或者 tell her to let her anger out in some other way. For example, when she gets mad 或者 sad she can draw 或者 write about what happened.

I understand. I also have aspergers, and it is very hard for me to be social, as well. 你 should tell her that while cutting may provide temporary relief, it won't last forever, and soon she will end up doing it so much that she will injure herself to the point where it won't provide relief anymore, just 更多 pain. She may even kill herself. Express your concern to her. It doesn't need to be anything super long, it can just be something simple like: "I'd be really sad if something happened to you." Anyway, I don't know how much this helps, but as we probably both know, being social is a HUGE challenge.

I suggest 你 try to work to gain enough money to buy yourself a new computer. 你 have to try somehow. Do anything 你 can. She obviously loves 你 enough to cut her self just because she doesn't talk to 你 enough.

im going to be honest here nothing harsh just what i think and what i think u should do...

first off this is *fanpop* no *datepop* no offense but how do u know what the other person is doing while off line? online dating for teens and adults is not 安全 nor rasional

sec 你 mom 说 not to be on chats and online on sites like this i believe u should respect ur mom enough to listen to her

third she cant be cutting that much ik i use to have to habit myself and no body can with stand that much trama without going in gto some kind of shock..if shes harming herself just bc her computer broke means shes got seriou emotional trama which will make it harder on the relationship if not medically strightened out (ik i had to take meds myself for that kinda trama)

now if shes doing it for attention then there 更多 mental and emotional trama then we think 或者 she maybe playing u with it just for attention and pity im not saying its the case but its highly possiable.

NOW my 建议 either way tell an adult 显示 ur mom the messages and her help dont sit around and say u cant bc u can if u 爱情 u and dont want to lose and want her better tell someone who can really help her.

Tell her that cutting herself is not going to take away the pain. It will only add to the pain. 或者 get a councellor to help. Tell her to try relaxing. When I'm in stress, I just sit quietly and relax. It always works. 或者 maybe listen to music.