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Why did I cry/felt sad when this happend?

My best friend and I are very close. I am straight and she is bi. Today she messaged that she is going out with one of my friends.(a girl)
When I read this, I felt my 心 break then I began to cry. Why did I feel like this and why did I cry? I never had romantic feelings for her.
 bigtimerushfan1 posted 一年多以前
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oboe_player said:
That same thing happened to me. I think I was sad because I'm naturally kinda selfish when it comes to people and I didn't want to share her. I hope that helps :)

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posted 一年多以前 
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Yeah, I think that's what happend. Thanks! I am kinda selfish when someone tries to steal her :P
bigtimerushfan1 posted 一年多以前
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No problem :D I'm glad I helped
oboe_player posted 一年多以前
Shadowmarioking said:
That's an excellent question.
I can't say why 你 did such a thing. Perhaps it's because 你 really do care for your best friend so much 你 like her 更多 than just a friend? 或者 maybe you're frightened of her being hurt 由 your other friend.

I'm not sure. You'll have to reflect on this 问题 for some time before 你 understand why 你 did such a thing.
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posted 一年多以前 
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You're right, in my mind my voice kept repeating "She was mine, why did 你 take her away from me?" Wonder what that meant...
bigtimerushfan1 posted 一年多以前
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^Perhaps 你 feel as if your best friend will spend 更多 time with your other friend instead of you. I think you're afraid of being abandoned.
Shadowmarioking posted 一年多以前
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