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Guys i need your help....

I don't care if 你 hate me for asking these 问题 all the time. But i hate meself, and i don't think i'm good enough for anyone, even Keith.


Do 你 have any idea how to help me to not hate myself???


I really hate this feeling... I just think everything i do isn't good enough and i really need help, and i can't talk to my parents about this!
 XxKeithHarkinxX posted 一年多以前
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XxEmolovexX said:
Hun dont hate yourself, i've seen your posts on fanpop, and even though i dont personally know 你 i know you're a good,kind person.

I feel exactly how 你 do, im worthless, nothing i do is good enough for anyone, my family ignores me and always pay attention to my brother.

But my 老友记 on here helped me, just.. dont feel that way please. I've seen ya around and you're very nice and sweet. 你 are good for someone, 你 just havent met the right person, trust me youll find someone. Just dont think about youself like that because it hurts me cause i know what a sweet, kindhearted, lovely person 你 are.
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posted 一年多以前 
simpleplan said:
Find something 你 are good at.
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I'm good at nothing!!!!!!!!! DDDx
XxKeithHarkinxX posted 一年多以前
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Yeah xD
XxKeithHarkinxX posted 一年多以前
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That one was epic XD
simpleplan posted 一年多以前
KitKatLex said:
Read Harry Potter, that should make 你 feel better.
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 Read Harry Potter, that should make 你 feel better.
posted 一年多以前 
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I can't get it any where, plus i don't like HP.
XxKeithHarkinxX posted 一年多以前
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HP always makes me feel better X3
simpleplan posted 一年多以前
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Saving picture!
BeastBoyCahill posted 一年多以前
Hermione-Fan361 said:
Look at this picture:

Now Laugh. :)
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 Look at this picture: Now Laugh. :)
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I couldn't even force a laugh
XxKeithHarkinxX posted 一年多以前
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I 爱情 阅读 答案 on this website, I always find some cool pictures to save!
BeastBoyCahill posted 一年多以前
BeastBoyCahill said:
It's not true!
End of story!
P.S. It's not true.
P.P.S. That's not right.
P.P.P.S. 你 shouldn't hate yourself.
P.P.P.P.S. And that's because it's not true.
P.P.P.P.P.S. What do 你 mean NOT EVEN for Keith? I though 你 liked him...
P.P.P.P.P.P.S. Still not true!
P.P.P.P.P.P.P.S. This is getting annoying, isn't it? Okay, I'll stop. But seriously!
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posted 一年多以前 
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Yup i 爱情 Keith to death... but i'm clearly not good enough for him v_v
XxKeithHarkinxX posted 一年多以前
SoulResonance said:
你 can talk to a friend and that might make it better, but i think 你 should talk to your parents first and maybe see about going to therapy 或者 something. i know that 你 think that 你 can't talk to your parents about it, but trust me, 你 can and it will turn out for the better if 你 do. a good friend of mine, most of 你 know her i think, was having the same problem until she finally went to therapy about it, and she's doing a lot better now and gaining some 更多 self confidence and self worth and she's only been in therapy/treatment for a week. i know that its a difficult thing to do, to tell people how 你 feel about something like that, but it will help 你 in the long run. ^^
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posted 一年多以前 
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I tied telling my parents and they told me "Be happy!!! now go clean your room"
XxKeithHarkinxX posted 一年多以前
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^ then maybe talk to a school guidance consular 或者 someone similar. A guidance counselor should be willing to help you.
SoulResonance posted 一年多以前
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I'm homed schooled and only have 1 friend T_T
XxKeithHarkinxX posted 一年多以前
bubblegum_kiss said:
你 ARE good enough!!! seriously dont put yourself down like that!! things seem bad right now but theyll definitely get better! gotta stick with it and be tough! >:( i think 你 should try to talk to a friend about it. its most likely just a phase where 你 feel like this. but if it keeps going on and 你 feel so horrible like this, 你 might want to go see someone like professional, cause its important. DONT HATE YOURSELF! seriously its really unhealthy and theres no reason to!!!
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jester616 said:
I'm sorry that your parents were dismissive of your feelings. It's not helpful being told to be happy when you're feeling so low.

Almost everything you've written I've also dealt with, and as counter-intuitive as it sounds, sometimes 你 just have to ride out the low moods.

But total disclaimer, I am on anti-depressants, and that has helped. If that's what 你 need to do, then your parents must help you. If not them, then a school counselor, as someone else suggested.

Listening to 音乐 has also usually been a big help to me.

Please don't think you're worthless. You're young and have so much ahead of you. What you're experiencing now does not define who 你 are.

And for what it's worth, I've been enjoying your many contributions here. I think you'll see that a lot of people here feel that way about you.
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Ok, I just read that you're home-schooled. Have 你 tried looking at something like Web MD? At least it will give 你 a place to start.
jester616 posted 一年多以前
adaug said:
1.Count to 10.
2.Think of something 你 like/love (there's always something 你 like/love).
3.Calm down.
4.Sit down.
5.Close your eyes.
6.Breathe.
7.Think about the song "Good life"From One Republic.(If 你 didn't hear it,listen to it)
8.This is your life!YOUR life!Don't let anyone turn 你 down!Smile.And think."This is your life!In 80 years,You're in heaven 或者 hell!FOREVER!"So just,Believe,Have faith,and Smile.Don't hate yourself,You have flaws,EVERYONE DOES!But that's no reason to hate yourself!I used to think my life was over when my friend left for 5 months,but 你 know what I did?I believed,Had faith,and smiled.I didn't care about my flaws!And soon enough,I had another friend.
Everyone cares about you!
remember:Believe you'll get through it!Have Faith in yourself!And Smile,smile everyday!
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posted 一年多以前 
dreamfields said:
This is one of those 问题 thatis hard to answer online. 你 say that 你 have one friend. Is there something the two of 你 enjoy doing? It will be helpfull to concentrate on what 你 enjoy doing. It will give 你 less time to think about the bad.
I don't know your age, but are there any group activities 你 could get involved with 或者 maybe a youth group. Sometimes being part of a group and feeling appreciated can help.
If 你 go to the doctor, 你 should tell him how 你 feel. It could be a physical problem that is causing your feelings.
Now my personal opinion is that 你 should know that God made you, loves 你 and wants 你 to yourself. 你 have value just the way 你 are and what 你 will become.
I know it's not the same as having someone there, but if 你 ever need to talk about something, 你 can always send me a message and I'll get back to 你 as soon as possible.
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posted 一年多以前 
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"to 爱情 your self"
dreamfields posted 一年多以前
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