We all have our struggles right? When we go through them we don't automatically think God all the time. When really we need to go to God, we don't. We as humans struggle all the time, we go through so many things, we want at least one person to understand us. We want to feel that we have that someone that is there for us. And if 你 feel like no one is there for you, there is. God is always there. He may be very strict, he may seem mean, he may seem like he is not there for you, but he is. He loves everybody, even if they choose not to follow him in his ways. He still loves everybody even if they are gay 或者 lesbian. But yes he doesn't approve. But yes, he is there for 你 no matter who 你 are. If 你 go to him he is there. Listening to you, he has his ears open. They are unclogged. Go to him when 你 are struggling, he loves you.