If your little brother does something that 你 don’t like, 你 don’t keep your mouth shut about it, right? Of course not! 你 tell him straight out that he did something 你 didn’t like and to cut it out. And while we don’t advocate talking to your partner in the same way you’d talk to your little brother, the message is the same: 你 have to tell your partner what you’re thinking. 你 can’t expect him/her to be a mind reader—and they can’t expect 你 to read THEIR mind either. Telling your partner that 你 want them at opening night of the play you’re in (even though you...