That is entirely something 你 should be discussing with your Significant Other, and depends on the terms of the relationship. 由 all means, 你 do you, and don't let anyone dictate who 你 are 老友记 with, but do keep in mind the feelings of your S.O. and be courteous and mature about your habits. If s/he is uncomfortable, allow them to express that and don't get defensive about it. Just listen. If s/he has no problem with it, then at least 你 were up front about it and now there should be no confusion.