性与性取向

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What should I do?

I'm a Feminist, but I'm also a Christian. The problem here is that as a Feminist, I would want to meet a nice guy who respects me as a human being, but I'm afraid that he'll want premarital sex, which goes against my abstinence choice; as a Christian, I would like to meet a guy who respects and probably shares my abstinence choice, but I'm afraid that he'll be the "women must be submissive" type fools that'll force me into marriage before I'm even ready and make me a submissive being (which would be pretty simple for him because I'm softspoken). Any advice?
 ivoryphills posted 一年多以前
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Dope_Sean said:
Just let the right person come ur way, i mean if they the one, they wud neva force u into anything and just as u wanna be loved as a human, also 爱情 back, be patient and stand up 4 wat u believe in and people actually respect that...
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posted 一年多以前 
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Well said... If the boy 你 are with doesn't respect you, don't worry and wait for the 下一个 one...
DamederBlumen posted 一年多以前
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True dat!!
Dope_Sean posted 一年多以前
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:-) Thanks!
ivoryphills posted 一年多以前
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u welcome
Dope_Sean posted 一年多以前
dreamfields said:
Wait for the right guy. Watch out for any guy (Christians included) that's a control freak. Yes there is the whole bit about submitting, that is often misunderstood. Remember, we are to 提交 one to another. It goes both ways. As a Christian, don't be afraid to pray that God will prepare the right man for you.
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posted 一年多以前 
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哈哈 Thank you!
ivoryphills posted 一年多以前
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:)
dreamfields posted 一年多以前
RobinFan360 said:
Not all guys are out to get sex. In fact, only 45% of young people are actually having sex. 你 being submissive to him does not give him the right to cause 你 to sin. Plus, if he's a nice christian guy, he won't try to make 你 do it.
Point is is that 你 don't have to listen to him if he's asking for 你 to sin.
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posted 一年多以前 
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well 说 :)
dreamfields posted 一年多以前
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and even if someones not christian doesnt mean they dont share similiar 查看
Deans_Girl posted 一年多以前
Deans_Girl said:
Once 你 know, 你 may have found the right guy and 你 feel like 你 can trust him. tell him exactly what 你 told us. if he loves 你 he will respect that
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posted 一年多以前 
SubRacquel said:
Just stand up for yourself

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