Kinda Personal : My boyfriend told me he masturbated and I'm thinking that it's a reflection on how he finds me attractive..

It's normal, trust me. I do it too and so does my boyfriend, sometimes even when the other one is in the same room. Self pleasure is important and has no reflection on how attractive your boyfriend finds you. It's probably his way to either give himself a moment of pleasure to relax 或者 relieve some stress. He was honest enough to tell 你 about it and I doubt it was his intention to hurt you.

I don"t think a lot of guys masturbation as a part of their sex life. If 你 ask a guy who's not having sex about his sex life, he probably won't say "It's great, I masturbate at least three times a day"

Don't focus on whether he's masturbating 或者 not, but what he's thinking about when he does. If he was willing to tell 你 he was masturbating, he should be ok with 你 asking what he was thinking about. It's really sexy, actually. If he's thinking about you, there's no problem.
He could also have a 幻想 he's too nervous to tell 你 about and this is his way to get 你 to ask questions. I tried that with a girl once, but she didn't ask questions, so I dropped it.

i know youre nervous to ask him as 你 说 but seriously HOW do 你 expect to have a good relationship with someone if 你 cant talk to him aboot something thats worrying you? and can i also ask if 你 are comfortable aboot the amount of sex 你 guys have?
great answer,eh? two 问题 :P