音乐 recommendations??

I think 你 might like Nightwish, Within Temptation, Flyleaf, the Pretty Reckless, Apocalyptica.
你 could also get a Pandora account, type in an artist 你 like and it will make a station of similar artists that 你 can listen to and see if 你 like.

Female fronted: Flyleaf, Tonight Alive, Eyes Set To Kill

Other: Mayday Parade, Of Mice & Men, 你 Me At Six, 标题 Fight, Bring Me the Horizon, A 日 to Remember, Sleeping With Sirens, Asking Alexandria, Set It Off, This Time 下一个 Year, The Downtown Fiction

not all necessarily stuff I listen to but stuff I think you'll like ^_^

I don't know about bands like My Chemical Romance, but if 你 want something Evanescence-ish...

-Nightwish's album 'Once'
-Nightwish's album 'Century Child'
-Kamelot's album 'Ghost Opera' (actually anything in Kamelot's discography)
-Xandria's album 'Neverworld's End'
-Tarja's album 'My Winter Storm'
-Tarja's album 'What Lies Beneath'
-Within Temptation's album 'The 心 of Everything'
-Mortal Love's album 'Forever Will Be Gone'

Lacuna Coil's 音乐 is also frequently called similar to Evanescence's. I'd suggest to start with Comalies, the album I think that gets compared to 伊凡塞斯 the most.

Sirenia's albums 'The 13th Floor', 'The Enigma of Life', and 'At Sixes and Sevens' are also comparable to Evanescence.

If you're looking for catchy melodies/riffs, look up Jorn's 'Bring Heavy Rock to the Land' and 'Spirit Black', Hammerfall's 'No Sacrifice, No Victory' and 'Glory to the Brave', Alestorm's 'Black Sails at Midnight', 'Back Through Time' and 'Captain Morgan's Revenge', Helloween's 'Gambling With the Devil' [actually just look up any power metal album], Nightwish's Dark Passion Play and Wishmaster, Crom's 'Vengeance', and Epica's 'Design Your Universe'.

Btw, Nightwish, Xandria, Within Temptation, Mortal Love, Lacuna Coil, Sirenia, and Epica are all female-fronted, and Tarja is a female solo-artist. :)

Frankly I have developed a thing for Emma Hewitt a few songs 由 her are;
- Disarm Yourself
- Waiting
- Still Remember 你
- Miss 你 Paradise
- Rewind

My 最喜爱的 band is Within Temptation here are a few 由 them (Female fronted sort of gothic, generally awesome);
- Our Farewell
- Jillian
- Jane Doe
- Ice 皇后乐队
- Mother Earth

My 秒 最喜爱的 band is Delain here are a few songs 由 them;
- Generation Me
- April Rain
- We Are The Others
- Babylon
- Hit Me With Your Best Shot

Also a big 粉丝 of Omega Lithium;
- Dance With Me
- Andromeda
- Infest

The Lovecrave is also great (gothicish female fronted);
- Can 你 Hear Me
- Streghe
- 吸血鬼 The Light We Are

Grimes (unique sound);
- World Princess
- Genesis
- ≈Ω≈Ω≈Ω≈Ω≈Ω≈Ω≈Ω≈Ω≈

Die Antwoord (Rather odd sound);
- Cookie Thumper
- I Don't Need 你
- Fatty Fatty Boom

Pythia;
- Cry Of Our Nation
- Bury Her
- 接吻 The 刀

Blutengel (Gothic);
- Seelenschmerz
- Reich Mir Die Hand
- Schmerz 4 (Tod)

Gaggle (This one has a unique sound);
- Hello 蜘蛛
- Power Of Money

Malice Mizer;
- Hakai No Hate
- Saikai No Chi To Bara

Xandria;
- 母狮, 雌狮
- Now And Forever

Smile.dk;
- Summer Party
- 蝴蝶

Dazzle Vision;
- 秒
- Vision

Some honorable mentions; Born's Radical Hysteria, Eluveitie's Thousandfold, Dir En Grey's Obscure and Dalriada's Igrete.

These are all various genres from like pop to folk metal. I typed these 文章 if 你 care to hear a bit about each band;
www.fanpop.com/clubs/music/articles/224171/title/remot...t-1
www.fanpop.com/clubs/music/articles/224220/title/remot...t-2

Sorry if I went overboard lol.