Follow these steps to find out if the girl 你 have your 心 set on really likes you.
As a girl in 爱情 myself, I can tell 你 important things about other girls too.
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Be bold and initiate a short chat. This will help 你 to learn those little things that will come in handy later because everyone loves knowing that someone actually listened to them and cared enough to remember the small details about them. Listen carefully and be attentive to the things she tells 你 so that 你 will have them for future reference. As 你 talk, notice if she gives 你 any signs, special words 或者 hints.
*All girls are different. Is she shy 或者 outgoing? Does she act like this around other guys? Look at her body language. Leaning in, uncrossed legs, nervous voice, and dilated pupils (especially), are all signs she likes you.
*A good sign is if she laughs at your stupid, boring jokes too. 嘿 Hey, don't use bad jokes to test 或者 else it might make 你 look like a comedy dork!
*She may not be able to look directly at ya eyes. She might smile and laugh a lot cuz' she's worried about giving too much away.
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Watch for signs of flirting. If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Gregarious girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends. Uninitiated, this general interaction can sometimes be misconstrued as a crush, so know how she acts around other guys.
*Be aware that some girls have no idea that they're flirting. In this case, she probably likes 你 a great deal since her subconscious is letting her body language do the talking.
*Most girls don't like to be obvious. Girls fear rejection too.
*If 你 fancy a girl, never make the mistake of "flirting around". If she sees 你 putting your arm around another girl 或者 sees another girl hugging you, she will assume that she doesn't mean anything to 你 and will stop trying.
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Check for 随意 hugs, reserved mostly for you. Hugs can be a very openly and permissible affectionate way of getting closer to 你 and touching 你 without it necessarily compromising her stealthy flirting. In turn, 你 can go along with it if 你 want, 或者 just act busy like you're late for an appointment and need to rush off.
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Take notice if she "accidentally" bumps into 你 更多 often than what you'd consider the usual.
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Observe the way in which she looks at you. If she likes you, she will tend to either hold her gaze on 你 for a long time 或者 pull away immediately the moment your eyes make contact with hers. Either of these responses could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it often means she is nervous 或者 not ready to reveal her true intentions yet, but she still likes you. And if she holds the stare, and 你 believe 你 see responsiveness 或者 even 爱情 in her eyes, then she is confident and she may make the first move.
*Of course, some girls might just be staring 或者 winding 你 up, so don't think she loves 你 and wants to get in touch with the real, inner you. Use the context to discern the motive.
Look at her friends. If 你 see most of her 老友记 glancing back at 你 and smiling 或者 giggling, this probably means that she has told her 老友记 about 你 and they're "in the know". This can happen at any age, although mature girls and women 老友记 tend to behave in a slightly 更多 circumspect way, using glances and knowing smiles 或者 nods instead of giggles. In some cases, a friend may actually be bold enough to come and tell 你 that her friend likes you.
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Look out for moments where 你 can play "rescuing the damsel in distress". If you're outside and the girl 你 like is nearby and starts loudly saying "I'm cold!", that's a subtle hint that she wants 你 to give her your sweater. This is a very sweet gesture, especially if 你 want to 显示 the girl that 你 like her. And sometimes a girl will pretend to be really bad at doing something, and say that she can't do it. That is your chance to offer some assistance; be aware that she will most likely be doing this on purpose just to see your reaction and hope that 你 will help out.
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Smile at her. Girls tend to like guys who smile, and are happy. Use your natural smile; 你 don't want to freak her out. If she smiles back politely, 或者 frowns and looks away, she may be uncomfortable 或者 disinterested. If she returns a soft 或者 big smile and continues to look at you, then it's likely that she's interested. However she reacts, it cannot hurt to keep smiling her way. Eventually she'll get the message that 你 find her charming and she may feel able to open up 更多 或者 at least to tell 你 openly that she's either interested 或者 not.
*If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her 老友记 and hides in the group, then she may be nervous and curious about whether 你 know that she likes you.
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Watch her body language. 你 can learn a lot about a girl 由 observing her body language and it goes well beyond obvious flirting signs into unconscious signals of attraction. There are a lot of signs that will tell 你 she's interested. For example, if a girl has her torso turned towards 你 in an open manner, this means that she is confident talking with you. If she has a closed body position, namely crossed arms 或者 legs, she may be shy 或者 nervous to talk to 你 或者 she may simply be creating a barrier to ward 你 off. Invest in a decent book on body language to help 你 learn how to accurately read her.
*Watch for subtle signs in the girl's face––if her eyes are dilating, then she may really like you.
*Look at her lips. If she touches them constantly 或者 bites them, she's probably very interested in you. If her lip quivers slightly when 你 look at her, 你 can almost be sure she likes you.
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Notice the little things she does for you. If she's always there for 你 when 你 need help, even like when 你 mention that you're really thirsty and she quickly offers 你 a sip from her drink, she might like you. But don't assume that she's into 你 only from one experience. Ask her occasionally for small things, like chewing gum 或者 a pen, and notice how she reacts. If she's always ready to offer 你 something 你 might need, go further and ask her to help 你 with something else, like a school, college 或者 work problem. It shouldn't be something really easy to solve, but not too difficult either, as some girls might say that they don't know how to help 你 with a 更多 challenging problem. If she's eager to help you, she probably likes you, although if 你 use this approach too much 或者 choose tasks that seem too difficult, she may think you're lazy, testing her 或者 even a bit of a nuisance. Don't overdo it; 你 don't want to risk her ceasing to like you.
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If 你 decide that she does appear to like you, 确认 it 由 having the courage to go and talk to her. Many girls feel too shy 或者 nervous about what your reaction might be to start a conversation with romantic undertones. Even if she seems like the most confident girl 你 know, she may have had a bad experience in the past 或者 simply not be ready to approach 你 yet but will be receptive if 你 start the conversation first. For 更多 ideas, see How to ask a girl out.
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Finally, but importantly, avoid over-analyzing her behavior. Doing so may result in your becoming obsessed with simply "winning her over", rather than getting to know her as a person. Rather than investing tons of time in determining whether 或者 not she likes you, just take opportunities every now and then to spend time with her and her 老友记 (not excessively though, 或者 你 may appear to have no social life of your own). Basically, get to know her as a person first and foremost and maybe things can go from there later––starting off as a friend gives 你 a chance to connect on a 更多 real level. Just make sure to make your intentions relatively clear (via subtle flirting), 或者 else 你 may become permanently "friend-zoned".
*sigh* That was pretty long. If 你 have read this long, I'm very thankful to you. I'm sure these will 你 a lot.
If ya do discover that the girl likes, 你 don't neglect her. Take care of her. Cause' it's very hard in this world to find someone who truly loves 你 and cares about you. It's a free tip from me :)
Have a nice and loving day! ♥
