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How can 你 tell if a guy likes u??????????I mean I get all the if he smiles at u but I really like this guy but I dont know if he likes me back because I dont see him that often HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

 jeydonfan101 posted 一年多以前
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Jamie86 said:
Guys need 更多 time to acknowledge and understand their feelings. So when he has developed feelings for you, it doesn't mean that he is already ready to act upon those. In a way, that's a good thing, because the time he needs to adjust himself to the idea of liking someone, 你 can gradually get to know him better. Just be friendly, be yourself. When he's ready he'll give 你 something 更多 to work with. And because 你 got to know each other a little better it will be easier for him to 显示 你 his feelings. But, just like you, he might be insecure wether 你 like him 或者 not. So, give him a clear signal every now and then. Flirt a little with him. The fact that 你 dare to flirt with him shows that your quite confident, something guys like in a girl. And remember, there's nothing wrong 或者 embarrassing at being in love, and being able to make yourself a little vulnerable 由 展示 your feelings, makes 你 更多 mature.

你 know when a guy likes 你 when he tries to act all manly aroundyou (I think it's some remainder of our cave men period). He might get a little jealous when you're with another guy, he might talk to 你 更多 (even though what he's saying doesn't make much sense) 或者 he might talk less to you, because he's shy 或者 uncertain. What also works great for you, is to make sure that his 老友记 like you. That will make it easier for him to confess his feelings for 你 and when 你 are dating 你 won't have trouble with his friends.

Hope this helps! Good luck!
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posted 一年多以前 
CullenProperty said:
Well... 你 never really know what a guy thinks until 你 lay your feelings out on the table. Do 你 like him? Cause if 你 do & 你 think that 你 could have something together, then 你 shoudl tell him how 你 feel. (I know that's what I had to do with my guy:). And be ready for anything that he can throw at you, just because he smiles at 你 and acts all nice and caring and sweet, does not mean that he'll only want to be friends. (Like with what happened with my guy.) 你 have to give yourself preperation to get rejected 或者 accepted. If he likes you, then awesome possum!! But if he doesn't, just breath and think that there are other guys out there.

To answer your 问题 is to 更多 like ask 你 another one: How do 你 feel? And if 你 like him then go for it. If 你 don't, then just try to be nice to him and if he confesses that he likes you, then (like what my guy did), ask him if it's okay if 你 can just be friends.

I really hope I helped because I know what your going through; It's hard not to know how a guy feels for you, especially if 你 like him. If he's giving 你 mixed signals and then rejects you, just breath.
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posted 一年多以前 
thespikedturtle said:
Well, if 你 don't see him very often, it's really hard to tell. But if I liked a girl, I would get really shaky around her and mess up what I say, look for signs like that. If 你 look up and he's looking at you, but looks away, that's another sign.
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posted 一年多以前 
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nawww cute.
Deans_Girl posted 一年多以前
blue_eyez said:
just be urself!!! if he really luvs u he will make a move, if not then u will stay friends. But the one thing u should never do is ask him if he luvs u/ask him out ESPECIALLY if he is with his m8s,coz he will say no, and u will look really desparete, soz if its harsh but its happened 2 me and i don't want u 2 make the same mistake!so just flirt a little, and 显示 him what fun u r 2 be around!!! hope it helps! xxx
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 just be urself!!! if he really luvs u he will make a move, if not then u will stay friends. But the one thing u should never do is ask him if he luvs u/ask him out ESPECIALLY if he is with his m8s,coz he will say no, and u will look really desparete, soz if its harsh but its happened 2 me and i don't want u 2 make the same mistake!so just flirt a little, and 显示 him what fun u r 2 be around!!! hope it helps! xxx
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