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should I care/worry about my boyfriend's mother not liking me?

We're both 15, we both really 爱情 each other and we're very serious. I've been over to his house about 5 times and all of those times, his mom seemed fine. She told me she was upfront and she would say if I ever needed to talk to someone, I can talk to her and told me not to be shy around her. She even gave me gifts and such. I was incredibly sweet, polite, and I always have my manners. I gave her loads of respect and we would talk like normal. But recently, I found out that I can't ever come over to his house again because she doesn't "like" me -.- My bf told me that she doesn't like anyone and that it doesn't matter how 或者 who the person is, she just doesn't like them. He also 说 she hasn't liked any of his past girlfriends either. I'm just wondering is it's something to care about. My mother makes a big deal out of "getting along with the mother" but I'm not sure :/ what do 你 guys think of this? I just need some ideas
 cuddly-pandas posted 一年多以前
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kitsune-no-hime said:
It might be 更多 important if 你 were a guy, but securing a good relationship with a mother-n-law 或者 one to-be scenario sometimes takes time, yet it is kinda important. Otherwise the guy has to be careful on both sides and be a very strong person. For 你 "now" at age 15, it is important because she may be over-bearing & controling which could make problems for the two if 你 still want to see each other 或者 more. If her trust isn't there, 你 are pretty much in the hole. If she forbids things, 你 are stuck with difficulty. It is of importance if she likes 你 for the relationship to go smooth and be accepted, but that is not something 你 can control. It would be nice if 你 knew exact reasons why, but don't be hard on yourself at all if 你 are caring and mannerly and treat her son well with care and goodness! 你 cannot win them all. Some parents are hard to please no matter what a person does and it may take time.

Hopefully she can be won over.
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 It might be 更多 important if 你 were a guy, but securing a good relationship with a mother-n-law 或者 one to-be scenario sometimes takes time, yet it is kinda important. Otherwise the guy has to be careful on both sides and be a very strong person. For 你 "now" at age 15, it is important because she may be over-bearing & controling which could make problems for the two if 你 still want to see each other 或者 more. If her trust isn't there, 你 are pretty much in the hole. If she forbids things, 你 are stuck with difficulty. It is of importance if she likes 你 for the relationship to go smooth and be accepted, but that is not something 你 can control. It would be nice if 你 knew exact reasons why, but don't be hard on yourself at all if 你 are caring and mannerly and treat her son well with care and goodness! 你 cannot win them all. Some parents are hard to please no matter what a person does and it may take time. Hopefully she can be won over.
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