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How do 你 know when your ex hates you?

We ended on a good note, it wasn't a bad break up 或者 anything and he even 说 he didn't want it to end. But he hasn't spoke to me in a 月 and he 说 he would still talk to me and meet up with me and stuff and he hasn't....yet, anyway. And also like 2 weeks 以前 i went on 脸谱 and as soon as I went online he went off, do 你 think he hates me 或者 what? i'm confused. I haven't done anything either. Cause when he left me he told me he loves me but the relationship has to end cause he could end up hurting me. Do 你 think he hates me 或者 do 你 think he still likes me?
 RnBStar13 posted 一年多以前
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cookiehead101 said:
i dont think he hates u i just think he needs some time 或者 he just feels awkward cuz after all u r his ex so maybe he just feels awkward 或者 needs some 太空 just leave him alone if it continues 下一个 time u c him ask him if anythings wrong 或者 if u did something 2 offend him
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posted 一年多以前 
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I have left him alone, I haven't bothered him at all.Like I 说 I haven't spoke to him in a 月 . And I will
RnBStar13 posted 一年多以前
Karthigesh said:
Sweetie, let me speak to 你 from a guy's perspective. I doubt it is easy for him to talk to 你 normally now after breaking up. It's always hard for exes to stay friends, especially during the beginning stages where it is just plain awkward. This awkwardness can however go away if the guy puts in the effort to be a little 更多 mature about it and talk to you....

Truthfully I think he is still isn't quite over 你 yet, maybe that is why he is avoiding you. 你 should give him some time, and see if he talks to 你 soon, because when he is ready he will. If he still doesn't then 你 are better off, just not talking to him altogether because it is a matter of mutual respect and friendship.

One last thing sweetie, never ever, blame yourself and think 你 are the one at fault. I know 你 are quite confused about his behavior but 你 have done nothing wrong so do not think that he hates you. He has his own issues and he needs to work through them, trust me, if 你 are important to him, he would work hard on it and be 老友记 with you, like what a proper gentleman of a guy should do.

Never let yourself feel second-best okay? somewhere out there is a guy who will treat 你 as his priority, and give 你 the 爱情 that 你 deserve :D keep your head held high always
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posted 一年多以前 
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I know, but he promised to still talk to me and meet up with me, do 你 think he is just giving it time and that he will talk to me? and I won't thanks for the great 建议 :)
RnBStar13 posted 一年多以前
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Guys are always cautious about a girl's feelings. I think he is nervous and a little afraid to talk to you, because it is a big change, from couple to friends. He just needs to realize that he can still 爱情 你 as a friend and watch over 你 and care for 你 and be there for 你 when 你 need a shoulder. Most of all he will want 你 to be happy. I can see he means a lot to 你 so I really do hope he works up the courage and be 老友记 with 你 again. Any man can make a promise sweetie, only a real man keeps it...
Karthigesh posted 一年多以前
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