Maybe 你 Could Ask Him What He Shares In Common With 你 And Also Ask Him If You're Willing To Take him To Something He Would Be Interested In Seeing Like A Romantic Movie, Broadway 显示 或者 A Nice Night Out For Dinner. Impress Him Really Well And Give him Good Compliments!
Just keep one thiing in miind while askiing hiim owt........... Dat if he's flirtiing wivv ya 巢穴, den, 书房 der must b a reason... And trust me just luk into his eyes it really helps.. I wud know lol.. ;)
Do 你 know the guy? have 你 been friends? do 你 know what he likes? I think if 你 说 NO to the first 2 then I think 你 2 should start as friends. Thats what me and my bf did and we'r good. not one fight yet really.