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The guy I have a major crush on has a girlfriend now. What should I do?

I have liked him since last summer. He is sweet and smart and cute and popular. He treats girls very well. But, just when I started to think he liked me, and just when I figured that I would have a chance, he gets a girlfriend. I cried to my friend when I found out. Plus, he is in a different grade, so in the school 年 we never have classes together. I never got a chance to tell him how much I care...IDK what I should do! Help!
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I have a similar case and IDK what to do 2...
Aglaia posted 一年多以前
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me too. to Aglaia
summerlynn1978 posted 一年多以前
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I would just tell him and see what he says 或者 I probally would just wait till they break up I do not even know even though I have to deal with 2 boyfriends but my 1st one had a girlfriend till the 日 he was new till the 3weeks till school was out then he asked me and I 说 yes so we are still dating but I do not really trust him because it is the summer but yeah I am so sorry if this does not help 你 but that is all I had to say cause I do not want to talk about my 秒 boyfriend so good luck and like I 说 I am sorry if this do not help 你
22478 posted 一年多以前
 DolphinLover97 posted 一年多以前
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IsabellaAzuria said:
Well try to tell him what 你 feel about him, don't try to force anything though. Just do it 由 a letter, through the internet 或者 cellphone message. If he really likes you, he will tell 你 and leave his current gf for 你 BUT 你 may not insist if he tells 你 that he is happy with his girlfriend. In that case anything 你 would try to do to wreck his relationship with the girl would make him dislike you. In a case in which he would betray his girlfriend with 你 and tell 你 he'll leave her soon, don't fall for that. Either he loves 你 and leaves her 或者 he just doesn't. I wish 你 the best of luck for that. Even if he doesn't like 你 this way, I'm sure 你 will find someone who will 爱情 you.
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posted 一年多以前 
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that is a great ansewer and I agree with 你
22478 posted 一年多以前
xBellaxEwardx21 said:
Ok, My bestfriend has almost the same problem alittle diffrent thoguh. He has a girlfriend there is not to much 你 can do about that. 你 dont want to break them up even if 你 like him alot. The first thing 你 want to do is talk to this guy. Tell him that 你 do have feelinfgs for him, tell him your willing to wait it out and see how he feels. 你 never want to pressur someone cause then they totaly wont like 你 back. After 你 guys talk i would lay low and give him some 太空 to think. If he comes back and says he has feeling for 你 to, then wait it out and see where things go with him and his gf. If he says that he dosnt like you, well let it go. But i know how hard it is to let it go, always keep a foot in. Becuase 你 never know, he might be hiding his feelings cause he is scared. Most guys can not express thiuer feelings beacuse even though its hard to belive. Guys have feelings too! 哈哈 so jsut see how things go! ZTell him 你 ned 2 talk to hima bout it cause apprently 你 both like eachother as freiends 或者 as 更多 then friends. 你 two need to work things out. Cause mabye he dose like 你 but he thinks 你 dont like him and thats why he choose to go out with someone else. But i know how hard it can be to talk to a guy. Im a girl too! 你 need to talk to him in person ,that is always the best way. It is the hardest but best way. 你 ahve to startoff 由 telling him how 你 feel. Then ask him if he ever did have feeling for you. He might lie to ur face, being it is face to face conctat and guys can get pretty....ummmm how do 你 say embarssed with that. But 你 jsut have to come straight out and tell him how 你 feel. He might not resepnd the way 你 want him to but he will think your 《勇敢传说》 and amaazing for talking to him in person and not over text 或者 电子邮箱 ;) even on the phone will work after 你 have worked things out. Add me and tell me how things go :)
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posted 一年多以前 
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GOOD JOB
22478 posted 一年多以前
Lunatic said:
Wait until his current relationship finishes, then tell him how 你 feel.

DO NOT flirt while he is still with someone. Would 你 like it if some girl started flirting with your boyfriend? (A: No. 你 wouldn't.)

Obviously, since he is going out with her, he likes her. Even if it makes 你 miserable, 你 should respect that she makes him happy. (Isn't it just hell?)
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posted 一年多以前 
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that is right
22478 posted 一年多以前
LabraLege said:
流行的 guys will never admire some girl crying for him :) don't bother.
But if 你 want to have him 你 need to be diffirent from his girlfriend. To get his attention. I don't know, maybe 你 should just change your hair color to 粉, 粉色 (it helped my sister) 或者 do something that he would never dare to do...
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posted 一年多以前 
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she shouldn't have to change herself for a guy. And she shouldn't have to be better then hia grilfriend. She should just beherself! He is 老友记 with her cause she is herself and apprently he likes her too!
xBellaxEwardx21 posted 一年多以前
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It's not about changing for HIM!
LabraLege posted 一年多以前
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yeah I agree with LabraLege it is not about changing yourself for a guy so just tell him how 你 feel and don't do what anyone else tells 你 just say what 你 believe in and WHO 你 believe in
22478 posted 一年多以前
Eclipse said:
I would ask him if he knows that u like him 或者 if he likes u and hes just tryfing to make u jelous cause u no how ego centeric guys can be but anyway, i would ask him and go from that.
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posted 一年多以前 
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That is very true 2, guys liek to make girls jelous! ALOT! haha
xBellaxEwardx21 posted 一年多以前
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that is SOOOOOO true because my cousin told my boyfriend that I a dating NOW that I liked him and he 说 I know so we have been going out for about a 月 now I think I am not sure it was 3weeks before school was out but I 爱情 him with all my 心 but on the other hand one of my brothers 老友记 asked me out so now I have to deal with both of them BUT I 爱情 my first baby first I don't rally like the other one but sorry I agree with 你 Eclipse
22478 posted 一年多以前
peterslover said:
How long 以前 did he get his new girlfriend? That can make a difference. If it's been months, then do 你 really want to be the one who breaks up a relationship? If it hasn't been that long, then do 你 now have the courage to stop him between classes and mention that 你 care alot for him? Stay true to yourself-NEVER be something that your not just for a guy, 或者 anyone!! I hope I am of some help. ♥
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 How long 以前 did he get his new girlfriend? That can make a difference. If it's been months, then do 你 really want to be the one who breaks up a relationship? If it hasn't been that long, then do 你 now have the courage to stop him between classes and mention that 你 care alot for him? Stay true to yourself-NEVER be something that your not just for a guy, 或者 anyone!! I hope I am of some help. ♥
posted 一年多以前 
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About 2/3 weeks ago...
DolphinLover97 posted 一年多以前
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well 你 could still go for it don't be scared if she gets mad it is ok because. I know someone who is going to go to 7th grade with me 下一个 年 and she wants to fight me because I am dating my boyfriend and she use to like him so it is ok
22478 posted 一年多以前
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GO FOR IT
22478 posted 一年多以前
cheery_blossom said:
Wait it out, flirting nonstop (subtly) and catch him on the rebound.
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Why would 你 want to just be the rebound chick while he is still getting over his ex?
Lunatic posted 一年多以前
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no bad idea
22478 posted 一年多以前
sweet_n_silly said:
That happens to me alot. I'm not sure if this is the best thing to do, but I just wait it out. I flirt a little bit, when his gf isn't around of course, and hope they breakup happily. Beware of the gf though!!!! If she even starts to get suspicious, pull back. other than that, don't try to be the one to throw a wrench in their relationship and be patient. When things go sour, which they most likely will, be ready to catch him. That's when the hook drives the deepest.
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posted 一年多以前 
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嘿 me too want to be my 粉丝
22478 posted 一年多以前
Black_cat_ said:
there are a few ways to deal with this, 1 is 2 tell him how u feel and dont expect anything from him, wait till he breaks up with her and tell him (is risky i did it and it turned out she liked me b4 she got a bf), 或者 hide ur feelings till they go away. all of the choices r hard and most of them dont lead to anything. ur best bet 2 me is 2 just tel him right now how u feel and just see what happenes hun, otherwise ul just be waiting and either hopeing 或者 not knowing
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ok????
22478 posted 一年多以前
Twili12 said:
Hey, it's okay if this happens to you. You're not alone on this one. Well, what I would do is, just wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend. It depends what age 你 are at. Like, if 你 are not in high school yet, them breaking up is HIGHLY likely. But, if 你 do think this boy may have had 或者 does have feelings for you, he might realize that you're the one he truly likes. I'm sorry if this doesn't help you, but feel free to send me a message.For now, just try and talk to him nicely when ever 你 see him. Act lady like, polite, smart, and ask him some questions, don't let yourself do all the talking lol! But I'm sure 你 will be okay. Ask him how his relationship is doing. If he points out some of his girlfriends' flaws, (ex. so and so shops too much. So and so talks about herself too much. Etc.) then try to 显示 him that you're not like that. Well, that's a summery about how I would try to go at this situation, but if 你 still have some questions, feel free to message me. I'm sorry if this doesn't help. Good luck!
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