2.Gauge your date’s reaction to you. You'll need to do this quickly as the goodbye-kiss window doesn’t stay open for long. If you’re walking your 日期 首页 and they don’t let 你 get that close to the door, take this physical distancing as a sign that a goodnight 吻乐队（Kiss） isn't such a great idea. If (s)he is eager to get the keys in the door, this too is a bad sign. Other red lights can include clamped lips 或者 a stubborn refusal to make eye contact. However, there’s a good chance that the signs won’t be as obvious as this. To give yourself the advantage in the moment, learn how to read body language so that 你 can act fast and avoid any mishaps. Only make a 移动 if 你 feel all is right.
3.Make a “moment.” Remember that in every goodnight 吻乐队（Kiss） scenario, you've got a limited window of opportunity to make your move. Create an "awkward pause" in the conversation. Studies 显示 that people are uncomfortable with gaps of silence in conversation, so fill it with a smile and get ready to 移动 in for a kiss.
4.Maintain eye contact. If your 日期 steadily returns your gaze, consider it an invitation to smooch. If (s)he tries to maintain eye contact but breaks it before anything can happen, chalk it up to nervousness and try to create another “moment” if it isn’t too late.
5.Move in for the kiss. Keep it simple, especially if this is your first 吻乐队（Kiss） with your date. This means no tongue 或者 special moves; just turn your head slightly to the side, lean in slowly, and rock his 或者 her world! 你 can place your hand on the small of their neck if 你 wish.
If your 日期 is enthusiastic, 你 may be able to turn the simple smooch into a longer, 更多 involved kiss. However, only do this if 你 feel very confident about the cues you’re being given; when in doubt, err on the side of 接吻 too little, as it’s better to leave them wanting 更多 than to make them regret 接吻 你 in the first place.
If 你 get the dreaded cheek turn, briefly apologize, laugh it off, and leave with your dignity intact.
6.Repeat if desired, 或者 if 你 feel your 日期 getting into it. This may lead to being invited inside, but don't count on it
Tips
-If it seems like your 日期 is waiting for a while to go inside, 吻乐队（Kiss） her. She wants 你 to.
-If 你 feel your 日期 trying to 移动 away 或者 say "No," don’t press the issue. Simply ask if (s)he's okay; if the answer is "nothing" 或者 your 日期 has to think about it, just say goodnight, as your 日期 probably isn’t comfortable enough to admit it’s too soon to kiss. Never force a goodnight 吻乐队（Kiss） on someone.
-Add 评论 such as "Tonight was amazing" 或者 "I hope we can do this again sometime" (and 显示 her that 你 mean it) to make him/her feel special.
-When you're walking away, give a little glance back - chances are she'll be watching 你 go.
-If 你 want to be extra cute 你 could even 吻乐队（Kiss） her hand 或者 forehead, but be wary of the forehead 吻乐队（Kiss） as some girls find it patronizing 或者 granddad-like.
Warning
-If your 日期 is facing the other way, do not grab his 或者 her head and turn it to face 你 for the kiss. This is pushy and unromantic.
-Be wary of giving a goodnight (or first) 吻乐队（Kiss） in front of friends, whether they’re yours 或者 your date’s; this is meant to be a sweet and private moment, so keep it as exclusive as possible.
-Don't just go around 接吻 anyone, anytime! 你 may be charged with sexual assault if 你 移动 too aggressively.
