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I have a depressed friend. And I mean REALLY depressed. Help?

So, I always knew that my friend Lily* was sad. She didn't ever really want to do anything and she just seemed down every day. It wasnt until recently though that I realized how bad it was. She cut herself. What do I do? None of her other 老友记 know, so I can't ask them about it. That's why I'm trusting 你 guys to help both me and my best friend ever. Please help.

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 DramaNut posted 一年多以前
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abandodned13 said:
嘿 I've been in Lily's place so I speak from experience, sometimes 你 feel like the world's against 你 every little rude 评论 puts 你 down further even if it's a joke. I'm keeping a diary to help but as her friend I would check everything 你 say before 你 say it. 你 can hurt her without even trying. If 你 be that shoulder to cry on and tell your other 老友记 when they make the stupid remarks like, "Idiot" even though there goofing off just tell them to cut it out. I notice when I listen to, Mat Kearney "Ships in The Night" and watch the movie, "a Smile as Big as the Moon" helps me. So all I say is be her guard against negative 评论 and be her shoulder to cry on. I hope everything works out for the best :)
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