While Elena's 老友记 do 爱情 her and help her, they 总体, 整体 blame their problems on her

Caroline- I 爱情 the whole carelena friendship however, care is very judgemental! She kept judging Selena for wanting to be with Damon ( in ep 4x07) when all Selena really needed was a friend. Yet somehow when she sleeps with Klaus, Selena doesn't say a word even though Klaus killed Elena and Jenna! Also, notice how care doesn't realize for weeks that Katherine is in Elena's body yet when caroline's mother dies and care is about to turn her humanity off, Elena realizes something is off with care automatically!

Bonnie- Bon bon was a good friend to Elena but the only thing I don't like is how people blame bonnie's grandma's death on Elena!