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辩论 Was I rude, 或者 in any way offensive here? 或者 was pumpkinqueen simply being intolerant of other people's opinions? See link in comments.
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Pumpkinqueen was being rude about blackpanther's opinion
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Blackpanther666's opinion was ridiculous!
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Blackpanther666 was rude
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Pumpkinqueen was being fair about blackpanther's opinion
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I don't think your being rude, in fact, I think what you said makes sense and I agree with you. She just has to comment on everything!!
I want her to respond to your comment.
But, I kind of have to agree with LaDispute. Don't get me wrong I know how you feel; I've been targeted on the Once spot for my opinions, I was yelled at and insulted and what not to the point I almost cried to the point I left the spot for a bit, but I still can't bring myself to even mention their names. Creating a poll like this only adds fire to the flame if she were to see it. I felt bad calling the two bullying me out on a totally different site!
Yes her comments were mean and unkind but yours were too. That's how arguments are, I've been in a lot of them. I see why you made this pick, I've done things like that too. But next time I would recommend not mentioning names and instead of making a link to the debate maybe ask something like 'is yuri okay at a high school level' or 'is it perverted to like high school yuri' just take the debate and turn it into a poll here. I did so when asking if bashing a character's appearance is bashing the actress too. It makes you sound less mean.
As for She's really annoying me and I needed to know that there are other people that agree with me. Why? Because she has now personally offended about four of my friends and takes the chance to insult me and degrade my opinion wherever I go... I've had enough. Trust me with those two users from the Once spot I got the exact same feelings. They would yell at me for accidentally forgetting to include Mr. Gold as part of the main cast. It was a very small issue that they blew out of proportion. Even after I apologized and added him to my main cast list they continued to yell at me. You better believe I wanted to make a poll like this. Both were going at me and no one was helping me at all. I would have wanted to know people agreed with me, reassurance is always helpful. But that's what friends are for, tell them about it they will agree and you won't get in trouble for calling people out. That's what they want you to do, stoop to their level and look like the bad guy, I fell for that same trap.
But that's why we have brains, to express our opinions and PQ just wanted to tell you that it's okay to ship Yuri and it's not all about sex, she just did that in a difficult way. And yes, I've debated with her too ^^ and we're still friends~
I just think your opinion was kinda ridiculous, saying how you don't ship Highschool girls and thinking its weird or perverted, but it's not so its okay. And yes, both of you were pretty tough on eachother..
Apparently, I'm not the only user who she completely changed her demeanor towards because we disagree about something anime/manga related.
She doesn't debate with people. If you're debating, you'll at least respect the opinion of the debater on the other side of the matter and both explain why your opinion is what it is. She always presents her opinion as superior, no matter what, despite that she's not even very skilled at carrying out her point, and despite what the user on the other side says, shoots down theirs and insults/snaps at them afterward.
She was banned for a reason.
You definitely aren't. I was actually one of the first few users she talked to on fanpop. I was kind of the one who showed her the ups and downs of the site and helped her figure out how it worked. She was super nice when she first joined but once she started getting more fans and medals she started acting very different.
And that's also so true. She doesn't debate she is outright mean. She legit claims that something is just debating. It's not a debate if the other person is literally begging the other to stop. She goes off on these crazy rants that would be debates if she wasn't calling someone 'shallow' 'biased' 'immature' 'douchebag' ect. Long paragraphs riddled with name calling is not debating. That's just being out right mean. You can't press your opinion on someone and call it a debate. And then when I stuck up for said user, she claimed I was babying her. It was uncalled for.
She definitely was banned for a reason.
It seems to me like she tries to see in others things that she hates in herself. For example, she has made it clear that she is a big Yaoi fan girl, so it seems odd that she would say that. I have seen many other cases like this that make me consider that.
Well, now that I have expressed the problems I've had with this user, and that she is already suspended, I am going to stop, unless there are any questions. I don't want to turn it into gossiping about someone else (albeit that what we have shared is obviously true).
That's all I'll say on her. I've been rather reserved about discussing these sorts of things in the past, but since this particular user also caused the banning of someone I was close to who is no longer on fanpop, I think it warrants some discussion of what these discussions should look like.
Sort of seems that way to me too. She talks of immaturity and bias and then she goes off insulting people for no reason and lets her bias take control. She also goes off calling people hypocrites, which in itself was almost hypocrisy. I noticed that too, she claimed to like yaoi, but everyone who likes yaoi 'only likes drooling over the abs.' I really couldn't tell if she like yaoi or not.
Yeah, I feel kind of bad talking behind her back. Kind of a low blow. I just had to gets some stuff of my chest. I just felt really back-stabbed.
@whiteflame Thank you! That's how I felt. Any healthy debate I tried to have started borderlineing on an argument so I ended up walking away. Every time I felt like she only heard what she wanted to and she didn't even try to see it from another point of view. I'm not saying she had to agree, but she discarded a lot of points simply because she didn't like them. She seemed to have this my opinion is fact, yours sucks outlook.
I hear you there too. Naturally I don't do this kind of thing but some of her attacks were just way too personal. She basically insulted my entire personality at one point. She got someone banned. Sorry about that.
PQ is nothing but a cocky and immature child, is she really 20? Because if she is then that is sad, I've seen many 14 yr olds even a TEN year old child act respectful towards others and being more mature than she is. I'm 17 (Although my profile claims that I'm 20 but I just changed my birth year becuz I didn't want to put in the actual yr) and I act more mature now. Back then I used to be mean as PQ but I changed the way I acted because I didn't want to be hated by people I don't even know in person. She's also not a good debater, when you debate you use facts not your opinions and I see her mostly throw out her opinions and her insults, then she claims that she "wins" every debate. Why is it so hard for her to accept that sometimes you lose? Honestly, she only reads what she wants to see then the rest she treats it like shit. Her points are invalid and most of the time I'm sitting there going "WTF are you talking about?!" because they make NO sense!
BTW: Is she really banned or suspended? I keep reading that she is suspended but then people say that she's banned so which is it?
I see that she may be coming back, I know that you guys were friends with her at first and I don't wanna sound as if I'm a bitch either but I don't want her to come back. She treated the whole Hetalia fan club as if she ran the club and she tried to control on what people thought and she treated everyone so lowly. I was hoping that she was banned so I will never see people ever having to deal with her bad attitude again. I've never been suspended for anything bad.
I'm not gonna feel sorry that a lot of people has turned against her, I truly won't. She has been so mean to a lot of people and she herself has turned against some of her own friends, she even went as far as to have a lot of people send hate messages to one of her old friends by lying that she was the victim. People like her should not use this site if they're gonna bring that attitude. I felt sorry that she has taken your fanart and claimed it as her own, that is something uncalled for and that's basically art-stealing if she didn't credit.
I feel bad but I don't it's more pity than sympathy. She bought it on herself. You can't just go around calling people pedophiles for what they ship and shoving your opinions down a person's throat and not expect people to fight back. I've heard about that one, and that's not okay. It's cool, it's over and done with it wasn't something I worked too incredibly hard on.
And second off, wow I'm so stunned right now. She gets back and I thought she would try to be at least a little better but no, she goes ahead and screws things up. And by what? Getting into another fight, she doesn't know how to learn from mistakes does she?
Oh yeah, does anyone know if the account Edvygirl was an account that was manipulated by PQ? I had a feeling it was PQ because this Edvygirl sounded too much like PQ.
1. Their attitude. The way they act is so similar. We all know this one.
2. Their spelling. "Populer," for example. Also their overuse of commas. It's all the same.
3. Edvy claims she's British, but she spells like an American. I can recall she spelled 'rumour' as 'rumor.' (That comment is not there, any more, sadly.) Also, the fact that she uses the word 'trash.' I PERSONALLY met a British girl. She said that no British person uses the word 'trash' or 'garbage.' They use the word 'rubbish.' Apparently, trash and garbage are American words or something.
4. Edvy's overuse of British slang. The way she said it, it sounded DELIBERATE, and not natural at all.
I mean, even though they ARE two different people, at least I kind of proved that EdvyGrl is not British.
Well I don't know what her problem was but she treated me like crap just because I just said something on Fanpop and she also treated my friends like crap constantly, the only person whom she ever treated nicely was PumpkinQueen and it got me suspicious that it was another account made by PQ, but if it was another person then wow, what an ass-licker and a retarded person. Also thanks for proving your point Toast.
And another thing I didn't get was that I treated her nicely too, if I knew she was a major bitch like PQ I wouldn't hesitate to treat the two with a nasty attitude as well.
@blackpanther She used to actually like me. But out of nowhere she just started to hate me. I think it was when I asked her to stop being so hateful towards Makorrafans.
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