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Boyfriend Help?

I have this amazing boyfriend is such a sweetheart and his 心 is pure gold. My parents 爱情 him and think that we are a good match. I agree, however I have never been attracted to him. I find him a bit repulsive and I could never imagine being "physical" with him. He weighs 更多 than 300 pounds and possibly he is 350. He is 16 years older than me too. What bothers me is that he is fine with his weight and happy with it and doesn't want to lose any weight. Now I know that I am not at a great weight either but I weigh a lot less than he does and I am losing weight on 最佳, 返回页首 of it. He is not ugly, it is the weight that's the problem. However this is my first boyfriend and I have been told to not leave him and stay with him. How can I stay with him if I am not attracted to him physically? I am attracted to his personality though.

I would really appreciate it, if anyone can give me 建议 whether I should stay with him 或者 leave him.

I have been seeing him I think about 5 months, and I have always felt this. I just went out with him because he is a really nice guy.
 United86 posted 一年多以前
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Book-Freak said:
Hiya. There is no problem with not being attracted to him because of his weight.Why dont 你 tell him that 你 are worried about his health?I dunno....you could tell him the truth.... I kind ain't the best person for this: I have had one boyfiend in my life, and I was eleven. It lasted for half an hour. So yeah...
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posted 一年多以前 
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That's okay. I have decided to break-up with him. With additional reasons. Thanks for answering!
United86 posted 一年多以前
XvxBERSERKxvX said:
Alright this is what 你 do.

Get a some tough guys to beat him up and take your 钱包 while 你 guys are heading 首页 from a stroll, tell him 你 nolonger feel 安全 with him anymore unless he joins a fitness club and takes up Boxing 或者 Ju-jitsu. If he MANS UP, maybe he'll dedicate his life to training and lose weight, 或者 He'll leave 你 from shame. Either way, 你 win! :)

Oh, and its only fair that if 你 expect him to lose weight, 你 should lose weight as well, only fair.
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posted 一年多以前 
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Just to let 你 know I have 迷失 更多 than 40 pounds so far, and I am still losing weight. Just to let 你 know me & him have already 分裂, 拆分 up.
United86 posted 一年多以前
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XvxBERSERKxvX posted 一年多以前
PACKERSRULE2 said:
Not to be mean, but I think 你 did the right thing breaking up with him, it sounded like he was 更多 of a super close friend (like amix between a best friend and family member) and that is not love. i think because of what others (such as ur parents) say and maybe even what u say sort of conivnced u that u loved him 或者 had "those feelings " for him ur really smart and courageous for doing what u did! Congratz (I did not mean for this to sound mean i feel for the guy but u need to watch out for u wich is what u did!)
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posted 一年多以前 
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No 你 are right it was the right thing to do breaking up with him. I am now dating another guy, who I 爱情 with all my heart. We have been going out for 6 months & I am attracted to him mentally & physically. He is 17 days older than me, much better than 16 years. I could imagine a future with him.
United86 posted 一年多以前
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thats great thats the way it should be im happy for u :) enjoy!
PACKERSRULE2 posted 一年多以前
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