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I'm a 16 年 old. I'm very antisocial because my mother and step-father fight a lot so I've kind of redrawn from society. I watch a lot of amime, I feel closer to the characters than to real people. I do have a few friends, but I hardly hang out outside of school. I actually have a crush on an 日本动漫 character after my crush rejected me a few years back. I tell people that it's juts a joke and for show, but I can't get over these characters. I'm getting some hate for it, what should I do?
 Momo_Hinamori posted 一年多以前
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kid_symmetry said:
Hello!
About your parents fighting, just remember, it's not your fault! They may blame you, they may say its your fault, but it's really not your fault! I have a friend who's parents drink a lot and they always tell him that he's worthless and he's nothing, but in reality, he did nothing wrong. I think the best thing to do would be to write a letter to your parents. It may seem stupid, but it will 显示 them how much it means to 你 that they at least try to figure it out 或者 solve the problem.
And about your 日本动漫 crush, it's totally alright. I went through that stage. When I find myself doing that, I just go with it until I feel like its getting rediculous on a serious level. 你 seem like a really nice person, and I can't see why people wouldn't like you! A good way to feel 更多 accepted is to try to plan dates to just hang out with your 老友记 at a nearby park/movie theater/ whatever.
If 你 want to talk about it more, feel free to message me!
Always there, T.
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posted 一年多以前 
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Thank 你 so much, I feel so much better. :)
Momo_Hinamori posted 一年多以前
monkeemania said:
Hey! To tell 你 the truth, im kinda going through the same thing that your are with the 日本动漫 but with my 最喜爱的 band/show. I just moved and changed schools last 年 so everything changed. I didn't really have any good 老友记 at my new school and never hung out with people out of school. I had a best friend that moved the same time i did (she 评论 on your 问题 to.) but there was three hours difference from the places we lived so when I was finished with my homework she was sleeping. so when I was bored 或者 lonely I would listen and watch a band called the monkees that was 流行的 in the 60s.

soon enough, they became my best friends. They made me laugh when i was crying, amused when i was bored, and I knew I could never leave them like i had to leave my real 老友记 when i moved. At school, I talked about them like crazy and I started to realize that they were blocking my could-be friendships, but they were my best friends, how could i stop talking to them?

finally, I found someone who was just as passionate about them as I was. I actually found her on fanpop. we started 写作 each other and now, were the greatest of friends. I found myself talking less and less about the monkees at school and that people started wanting to hang out with me.

so what im saying is, if 你 have the same problem, try to find people who find the same things interesting that 你 do on fanpop. than 你 will start 展示 you, instead of the thing that 你 enjoy allot, to people at school. hoped this helped and sorry for the long story!
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Thanks a bunch. Both of your 评论 have helped, I feel heaps better about it :)
Momo_Hinamori posted 一年多以前
FLUFFYMUFFIN said:
ah im jest like you. ive been in a battle with bullies...BUT the only thing that matters to is that i NEVER GIVE!! no matter how big the problem is dont back down! your 16 and your tierd of being mocked and having to deal with fighting parents... so take a stand! 你 will never help anything if 你 jest stand there.(i found out the HARD way) tell your mom that 你 爱情 her and she might soften and think 更多 clearly...and tell your dad the same.And dont forget that God loves 你 no matter what! I wish 你 lood luck! oh and I understand likeing "unreal" characters 更多 that real people. OH AND TELL YOUR 老友记 THAT IF THEY DONT LIKE YOUR 爱情 FOR 日本动漫 THEN THEY SHOULD KNOW THAT NOTHING IS WRONG LOVING "UNREAL" CHARACTERS!!! AND THAT 你 DONT CARE ABOUT WHAT RUDE THINGS THEY SAY!! i wish 你 the best of luck! ^_^ and never forget...NEVER GIVE IN!!
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 ah im jest like you. ive been in a battle with bullies...BUT the only thing that matters to is that i NEVER GIVE!! no matter how big the problem is dont back down! your 16 and your tierd of being mocked and having to deal with fighting parents... so take a stand! 你 will never help anything if 你 jest stand there.(i found out the HARD way) tell your mom that 你 爱情 her and she might soften and think 更多 clearly...and tell your dad the same.And dont forget that God loves 你 no matter what! I wish 你 lood luck! oh and I understand likeing "unreal" characters 更多 that real people. OH AND TELL YOUR 老友记 THAT IF THEY DONT LIKE YOUR 爱情 FOR 日本动漫 THEN THEY SHOULD KNOW THAT NOTHING IS WRONG LOVING "UNREAL" CHARACTERS!!! AND THAT 你 DONT CARE ABOUT WHAT RUDE THINGS THEY SAY!! i wish 你 the best of luck! ^_^ and never forget...NEVER GIVE IN!!
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Thanks so much, all of your 评论 are making me feel really good. I was having a shit day, so thanks for cheering me up :)
Momo_Hinamori posted 一年多以前
writer67 said:
many in life cant escape from their envoriment within the family limits. the 日本动漫 u can relate to n it gives u an escape. n so what if u have a crush on an anime! many cant tell its a joke as they rnt aware of real life, as they too have problems,they tell no one of.hope your studying n getting good grades as they will allow u to get away into the great big wide world. but setain things u don't have to tell others.n take it easy, u may b antisocial so to speak but u have a golden heart. maybe u could take a part time job somewhere, to get u out ,to start building. but good luck, cost u one 支持 由 the way!!!

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Thank 你 very much, 你 all have made me feel so better about this
Momo_Hinamori posted 一年多以前
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