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My friend at school always talks about Hetalia,like today we were talking about an anime,then she changes the subject to 黑塔利亚 crossovers. She always does that,and she always makes us watch 黑塔利亚 stuff. She comes to my house on weekends,steals my laptop and then looks up 黑塔利亚 on my laptop. I am getting sick of it. I ignore her now during my science class. But,should i keep ignoreing her 或者 should i tell her to stop talking about 黑塔利亚 for at least a day. I mean,yeah i talk about anime. But not as much,and i don't change the subject to anime. *sighs*
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i hate 黑塔利亚 just to let 你 know^^
InvaderRena posted 一年多以前
 egyptprincess7 posted 一年多以前
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red_rosa said:
Ah I have the same problem. Except my friend won't stop talking about fucking church. Forgive me lord, I 爱情 church, everything about it, but Fuck, she won't shut the hell up and I want to 冲床 her >_< I can relate to u though. I'm still dealing with this problem myself, and I am doing the same thing 你 are to her. Ignoring her, and I guess that's all u can do for now. How about maybe to tell her to just chill about hetalia. Tell her to shut up when she gets out of hand. That's what I do to my friend XD and when I don't I just pretend that I'm listening and just frown while I try to do my work. Sometimes they get the hint. Well, I hope this helped (I'm not very good at giving advice) and good luck *gives 你 a cookie* ^-^
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posted 一年多以前 
Chibi-Baka3 said:
Wellup, there's always SOMETHING that people obsess over, but as you've noticed, it can get...obnoxious.

I don't think that ignoring will do much in this situation. Talking to her about this should clear up the problems. However, don't be harsh and tell her how 你 feel in a rude way. It's not going to convey very much, nor is it good communication skills. I'll level with you: my friend used to be the same exact way. This was when 黑塔利亚 was the new thing, and I didn't hear of it yet. She would always talk about it, even when I didn't understand/didn't want to talk about it, let alone hear it. I told her that I wasn't very interested in it, and that leveled down the conversation about it. Something as simple as a single 评论 can do a lot, but it's the way that people say things that can leave something behind, whether it be good 或者 bad.

Just tell her honestly that you'd rather not talk about it so much. Have her level it down 日 由 日 instead of a drastic change in just one; that should help out. Although I don't want to say the word "expect" (since it may 显示 some demands), 你 should expect it decrease over time and 你 won't have to be that upset. She can still talk about her 最喜爱的 anime/manga, while at the same time it isn't giving 你 the same old results. To quickly recap: start off in a slow process, and then let it build over time. Don't be too demanding over it, be patient, and always do your best with composure in conversing with her.

If 你 have any 更多 questions, don't hesitate to ask me. Good luck to you.
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posted 一年多以前 
vampiressJazz said:
I had a friend like that..(well she's not really a friend anymore but that was another matter) she never shut up about, everything she talked about was... Hetalia! I used to rp with her and the only rp she wanted to do was Hetalia.. she ended up turning me off the 日本动漫 completely.(well i like it now..but that was on my own accord and i don't talk to her any 更多 XD) Just ignore her for a while 或者 when she try's to change the subject change it back (:

i think ignoring would work best.. but anyways which ever 你 think is best. good luck (:
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