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Ive got 爱情 issues.. well 心 break ones...

Ive loved the same guy for like.. 3 years now.. we went out twice and he turned out to be a massive asshole.. i really miss him.. but at the same time.. i hate him and dont wanna know him. He stopped talkin to me like a 月 ago.. and im loosing myself.. i really wanna be with him.. being with another guy made me hate myself.. i didnt last a 月 with another guy, It really hurts, i miss him.. but like.. i dnt know wether to belive that he really loved me.. 或者 that he was using me.. i feel so shit.. i 爱情 him, i hate him.. i wanna miss him.. but i like.. arrg! its so confusing.
what do i do.. letting him go is the hardest part..
Ive stopped talkin to him like hes stopped talkin to me.. but its not helping me. i miss him .. alot.. all these other people think im heartbroken over the gut i tried to replace him with.. but its a load of shit... but i realy dont know what to do..
 _Blackhearts_xx posted 一年多以前
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amazondebs said:
woa woa woa whats all this talk about death?

i know it sucks to really like someone and have them turn out to be something else and such but (and not to sound really cliche here) but he really ain't worth it if he's so imature as to not to talk to you

my 建议 would be to have a night out (or in) with a group a 老友记 maybe watch some films, go for a meal, hang out at the park 或者 i dunno what ever makes 你 happy (iceskating always cheers me up, hard work to take 你 mind off things and lots of giggles when 你 fall over) it won't be a magic over night cure but reminding yourself of the boys come and go and 老友记 are for life ideology is a great start
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posted 一年多以前 
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Thanks (: thats really helpful! ;D
_Blackhearts_xx posted 一年多以前
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welcome :)
amazondebs posted 一年多以前
cuteinblack6 said:
I feel so sorry for you! i bet 你 are just wanting to die.

well anyways i think 你 should give him up. and 你 dated 2 times? thats not good. i know its hard just to give him up, but look, 你 have a life to 移动 on. i bet lots of guys will like you.and he is a massive asshole because he needs to make up his mind.

Just forget about him ok? its fine. its not like someone is going to hurt 你 由 the choice. just cheer up ok?


hope that helped!

~cuteinblack6~
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posted 一年多以前 
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Yeah it hurts alot.. and i just wanna yea die.. Like i know, but its hard, we only broke up cause like i thought it was fallin apart.. but when we got back together agin. it was worse.. i just cant belive how stupid i was.. im tryin to let go... i guess (: thanks x
_Blackhearts_xx posted 一年多以前
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If it wasn't any good when 你 were together then either it's not going to work so I guess you'll have to accept. But I know it reeeeally sucks :( I feel for you.
snoznoodle posted 一年多以前
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mm yeah..
_Blackhearts_xx posted 一年多以前
JazzLover101 said:
I understand and your just waiting and wanting for death to come. And if 你 really feel like that strong about him start off being his friend that will take the hole out of your 心 and 你 can still 日期 other guys plus if 你 get to know him while your 老友记 with him well maybe eventually maybe 你 could start dating again but at least 你 will have something to stand on while/if 你 日期 again 你 know 更多 about eachother it will be though at first but its worth it. If this doesn't help just **sigh** just listen to your 心 and think about your possible 答案 listen to your 最喜爱的 音乐 while 你 think it will help 你 even 更多 {trust me!!!}. Give yourself a chance to think about him them for a while just forget about him {and just keep in mind he broke 你 心 twice ouch}
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posted 一年多以前 
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He wont even tak to me, he completelyy ignores me... and if i do talk to h im.. hes just like.. hi.. yeah.. k.. ect..
_Blackhearts_xx posted 一年多以前
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