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May I have a little help, please?

I know 问题 like this have probably been asked before, but I haven't found anything to help me. Yes, it's one of those "I like this guy..." things. ^^;

I'm not going to mention his name 或者 anything, in fear that he would find this. He's a really nice guy and my friend says that I should just tell him how I feel, but it's really hard for me to do so. I really fear the rejection (and I've never done this before, obviously. ^^; ). Another problem is that he lives somewhere else. I met him online.

Before anyone starts going crazy over it, I know that he's not a stranger 或者 a "creeper". I've talked to him on webcam before, and I've talked to him long before we've done so. We're pretty good friends, and we talk to each other every day. Some things make me think that he likes me but, as my friend put it before, it's the internet. Thus, it's hard to tell.

If anyone can help me out, that would be great. ^^ I can also fill 你 in with a little 更多 info if it's needed. Thank you.
 Chibi-Baka3 posted 一年多以前
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BabyBlud said:
Well all i can say is 你 will never know until 你 meet face to face.
I'm in a stable relationship, i even have a child and a 首页 of my own, and yet i still flirt over the internet with one of my greatest internet friends.
Friednly internet flirting is not hurting anybody, it's just a bit of harmless fun in my mind.
If you're still of school age i'd leave it until 你 are able to meet up and hang out. However if 你 are going to meet him, agree to bring a friend along each. Just in case. Sounds drastic i know, but someone i once knew met a man online and befriended him. They talked often, on and off webcam for over 5 years, yes, 5. They agreed to meet up, and seeing as she thought she knew him she went alone. 下一个 thing 你 know this guy had raped her and tried to strangle her to death. As 你 can imagine she was very upset and he still has not been caught believe it 或者 not. They no longer talk which i think is a very good thing.
So even though you've seen this guy on webcam, that doesn't mean anything.
of course, i'm not saying this guy 你 like is a total freak. all i'm saying is be patient.
If 你 think 你 could have a go with it (a relationship over the internet) just tell him of your feelings, and just say even if he doesn't feel the same way 你 hope it won't impair his thoughts of 你 或者 your friendship to each other.
A long distance, over the internet relationship could go well, with me i have never gotten the hang of them, but some people have even married online and are still living on the other side of the world as husband and wife. Strange..maybe, but sometimes it works.
I say go for it, but with caution. See where it gets 你 :)

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posted 一年多以前 
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I've thought of that before; I already decided that I would bring my friend along if I were to go and meet him. And yeah, I was expecting most of the things that 你 had said. ^^; I'm a very cautious person, so there's no worry about me doing something really stupid. xD I would also 爱情 to go for it, but I'm still really scared of saying it. I 说 it to my friend multiple times, but she just keeps saying "Just tell him, dang it!" I'm still just so confused... >_>
Chibi-Baka3 posted 一年多以前
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...Jeez, way to say "just" a whole lot of times... xD; My bad.
Chibi-Baka3 posted 一年多以前
1JUSTIN-BIEBER said:
i believe that ur cautious and how far away is this guy that u like?? and does another friend like no this guy and video chats him?? cause if so u should ask ur friend 2 ask him like secretly do u like (whatever ur name is) and see what he says..just tell ur friend 2 say like i wont tell her and she actually does tell u though.. plz tell me if u have any problems with this! i no how u feel!
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posted 一年多以前 
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Actually, I was thinking about that. I wasn't sure if I should, though, 'cause he might get a little suspicious. ^^; I might just try it anyway. And he lives in Canada, about four hours away from where I'm at. One of my 老友记 was with me when I first vid chatted with him, but I was using my laptop; she doesn't have one, neither does her regular computer (no Skype, etc).
Chibi-Baka3 posted 一年多以前
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