Relationship Help?

well let me get this straight
there are 2 guys lets call them A and B
so guy A is your boyfriend
B is a close friend
ok..
my 建议 break up with your boyfriends. (first thing) 嘿 to be honest, it better to not be in a relationship then be in one where it feels like nothing. seriously. it not anout 你 getting another boy. it about 你 being happy. if 你 are not satisfied with him then BREAK UP. it not about like 你 know how ppl think if 你 dont have a BF/ GF you're in a way not cool. this issue i would consider as a separate one. seriously. break up.

as for your friend, this depends on a lot of thing. mainly, how much 你 value your friendship with him. cause as far as i know, when 你 get together with a close friend then break up, 你 aren't as close anymore. there is this sort of awkward tension. so it really depends.
GOOD LUCK!

ok, so with the boyfriend (which 你 want to deal with first) if 你 dont like being with him anymore, there is no reason to stay with him. leave him. better no relationship than a dead-end one. and dont stay with him just cause your afraid of being alone, thats no good.

once youve dealt with the boyfriend, then 你 can start to work out your feelings for your friend. the 问题 to ask yourself are: do 你 realy like him that way? are 你 willing to risk your friendship with him? would 你 be ok with being just 老友记 with him? takeing that step between 老友记 and dateing is a huge risk, cause once youve taken that step, 你 cant go back. 你 could breakup and go back to being 老友记 but it will never be the same between 你 two, it just wont. then again if 你 realy like him and being just 老友记 with him isnt ok with 你 anymore, then 你 realy dont hav much of a choice, 你 either take the leap 或者 become unhappy with the relationship and drift apart.