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a little help??please??

my best 老友记 step-brother,
well what can i say...
basics:
hes a 年 below us in school
he used to get bullied 由 people in my class and older kids (i think he still does!)
his dad is quite hard on him!

in school:
its as if i dont exist, maybe its just because were not in the same year?
hes alot 更多 annoying and gets into trouble even more!
hes a little bit of a jerk!

outside school:
hes-
funny
sweet
caring
kind
tries to impress me

i dont know what to do i really like him but i dont think he likes me! but i dont know what side is really him inside 或者 outside?
 gleswigiagirl posted 一年多以前
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chickencheese said:
Well, he probably acts like that at school because he is insecure- he's been bullied before, and may be being bullied now, so that's no surprise. 你 say he's nice outside of school, and he seems to like you, so why don't 你 ask him if everything's alright at school and stuff- just talk to him, and see what he's really like. It's most likely that he's a nice person who just has problems at school.

Hope that helps!
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posted 一年多以前 
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that helps however i really doubt that he likes me! i really dont want to chance that just yet as he is my sisters step-brother i see him alot when im at her house and all 3 of us and 1 of his 老友记 are going ice-skating this weekend! any suggestions of little signs to 显示 i like him?
gleswigiagirl posted 一年多以前
ScottishChic said:
I have the simpliest, and most likely scariest solution: ask him.
Tell him to stop 表演 like a jerk.
In my opnion, two wrongs don't make a right- so, just because he was bullied, doesn't mean he should bully others.
I think he DOES actually like you, if he's trying to impress you, but at school, well, 你 know how it is, you've got to be "cool" and the guys HAVE to act all tough, like, "Oh look at me! Look at me!" And if he's seen being nice his 老友记 will probably pick on him so he's just trying to avoid it. Also, people act differently in school naturally just because there IS others around, some who like 你 and some who don't, it's like trying to survive so that they won't make the rest of his school life a misery.
He knows you, right? So, he is most likely 表演 normally around YOU.
But I honestly just say ASK HIM. It WILL be scary but if 你 get a good answer, then no harm no foul and if 你 don't get the answer 你 want, 你 can 移动 on and just act civilised because he is you're friend's brother.
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Oh, I don't mean ask him out. I just meant ask him why he treats 你 differently at school than he does at home. Tell him you've never bullied him, so he should stop being mean. As for the 展示 signs thing from the above answer- just flirt a little! No gross, heavy stuff, just something cheesy like, "I never realised how sparkly your eyes were." Something like that... except better and make eye-contact with him, not in the I'M STARING AT 你 way. Oh, and smile at him. Not so much that it's like THE JOKER, just a nice wee smile- people usually smile back and pay him a lot of attention
ScottishChic posted 一年多以前
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