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i need your thoughts

ok so i hate my mom. i serously hate her!
she judges my 老友记 when she hasn't met them!
she doesn't know me when i'm her daughter.
we have compleatly different 查看 on life. example: me:save the whales!
her: who gives a shit

me: likes to eat healthy and do things outside
her: eat nothing but fried chicken and throw away my life and be an unlikable person.

and she's like " 你 wanna be on tv? "
ok she's knowen me for 14 years! and i hate the spotlight, but i'm not a lonly island hermit.
and i even heard her one night saying how if i become famos she can 更多 money to meet her 老友记 at a convention! now i'm usally a pretty mellow person but when i snap, i SNAP!.
so one 日 i 说 i don't 爱情 你 and walked away, and she just kept wathing tv! also i 说 i want to 加入 the seasheapereds crew. [whale wars show] and she 说 no your going to be a peralegal! i hate that job!!! i want to be a scientist!! so, i figure, if she doesn't 爱情 me why can't i, so i do hate her. i want your thoughts.
 Mousefang posted 一年多以前
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MRS-J0NAS said:
I'm sorry, i'd like to help but, i dont really understand what your try say.
But it seems like 你 and your mum have differences right?
Everybody is different, and 你 have to learn to look at your mums perspective.
Im sure she hated it when 你 told her 你 didnt 爱情 her. She probably was so upset, thats why she didnt say anything.
I think 你 and your mum should try and get to know each other better. Do things 你 BOTH like. Im sure there is something 你 agree on, if not, do something she likes, as much as it kills you. Do something nice with her. BOND, and she will soon see what your like, and what 你 want to be and she'll accept you. Its all about communication. Trust me, i know, i have problems with my mum too. But 你 just have to relate to each other.
Best of luck, hope i helped x
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posted 一年多以前 
thespikedturtle said:
Normally I wouldn't suggest this. But 你 might want to run away from home.

I suggest 你 get really mad at her, then run out the door. Tell a friend (or maybe grandparents) to wait for 你 a couple blocks away from your house. Go live with them for a couple days , (without your mom knowing where 你 are) and see if she really misses you. If she does, and she probably will, then 你 can 移动 back with her, and feel happy knowing that she loves you. If she doesn't really react, then I don't know what to tell you.

I know it sounds like a crazy plan, but if worse comes to worst, I think it'd be a pretty good plan.
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posted 一年多以前 
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i wish i could but granparents HATE me, and she even 说 once " do 你 want to go to a new home!" and i even 说 " well i'd be better off!!"
Mousefang posted 一年多以前
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Do 你 have a good friend that would be willing to do that for you?
thespikedturtle posted 一年多以前
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Dude^ That sounds like a really crazy plan :/.
leytonfaan_18 posted 一年多以前
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Yes, yes it does. But it's for a pretty crazy situation, so it's just what I came up with.
thespikedturtle posted 一年多以前
hatota said:
first off unplug her tv, then stand in front of her and tell her if she really cared about 你 she would care about things 你 want not what she wants. if she doesn't listen then i guess she is a cruel heartless person.
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