随意 Article: I have a problem.

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posted by LocalArtistist

There is a guy in my class who always holds open the door for me and reminds me of everything for classes that I need (which still being new I found helpful) but I can't seem to be able to do anything in private. He will always ask me where I'm going, what I'm doing, what I want/need, and a bunch of other things. Everyone I ask tells me it's sweet, but I find it a wee bit creepy. And he is becoming 更多 persistent, if I'm texting someone he will demand to see who its to and what was said, if I'm drawing something he will want to know what it is, then he'll tell me to draw him in it. If I going somewhere even to the bathroom he will try and follow me. I've only known him for about a week and I don't even know what his name is yet he seems to know everything about me. I have no interest in him what so ever, and my mother says to let him down easy. But I tried that and he didn't stop. And on 最佳, 返回页首 of all this, I have a bronze watch 项链 that is my absolute 最喜爱的 possession so I'm almost always wearing it. But the problem is it hangs right at my chest and whenever he sees me in it he will stare at it forever, and even when I take it off and hand it to him he will stare at me. Normally I would slap him, but with his reputation of 'the shy guy' it would only make me look bad. So now I try to get him into disliking me 由 wearing old baggy sweat shirts and sweatpants with my hair a mess and no make up on. Trying to get him to take a hint. I even threw him "the face".

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egyptprincess7 That guy is starting to be a bit creepy like you said. Maybe...he's in love with you? Try to talk to him. Tell him that you don't like what he's doing and that it annoys you. If he still doesn't listen tell a teacher.

Bluekait You should definitely tell a school employee about it. If it bothers you, TELL someone. It will get it off your chest.

Dynofox15 Dang! Uhhhhh....I don't know how I can help with this. Your situation is pretty crazy and very messed up.

Dynofox15 Did you consider that he is either in love with you or probably a stalker? At least by the way he is acting all defensive and persistent and all.

fairytailsaiko The first reason that comes in my mind is that he is in lvoe with you somehow. You've only known him for 1 week right? Then you might want to go and ask for help from someone that will understand you very well like your best friend or a close friend. Or you can ask someone that was in that situation once too^^

cinnominbubble Tell someone at the school!

LocalArtistist I have told people the teachers say its just a phase (I pray it is) and my one and only acquaintance just gave me a weird look.

True-Finn-Fan when in doubt... stiff arm him XD jk in full honesty though your best bet is to straight up tell him that he's going way beyond you comfort zone... tell him that what he's doing is making you EXTREMELY uncomfortable... make him back off... and if you can... avoid him... the less time he's around you the better... (well that's what it sounds like)... i want to point out that i have never been in this situation before so i can only offer limited amount of helpful advice... some of which... i'm not sure is the Best tactic...