''You are too nice'' I suppose. A compliment I am being 给 quite often. Many times that coming from the sort of people we can't work out things together at the end XD !!!!
(Paraphrasing) But basically they 说 I was too direct and to the point and since I didn't want to play 由 their rules. They decided to purposely keep things away from me because most likely I'll fracture their glass house of security. Makes sense considering control freak but yea.